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diverdownbelow



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:09 pm    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
My fiance and I are getting married in Las Vegas. He wants to just wear a suit and have me wear a regular dress or cocktail dress, but I'd like to do the tux and bridal dress thing. Hey, it's my wedding and I've been dreaming my whole life about my dress and how handsome my groom would be. How can I persuade him that we need to go formal? We're not having any guests, except the family watching on the video feed back home, but we are having pictures.
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deb



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:17 pm    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Use the Power of the Y!
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DeeLee



Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:25 pm    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Just tell him your only planning on doing this once and you want it to be a day to remember not just another day in Vegas.If it means that much to you, he should want to make it special for you, do a little shopping, find out how much a tux and a nice dress would cost, and put it in front of him, show him your not talking a lot of extra money to make your special day extra special.
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dawson_brister



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:33 pm    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
I personally think that an elegant full length dress is fine with a suit....just make sure he wears a nice tie and a corsarge.
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dujvyh



Joined: 28 Nov 2007
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Location: USA

PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:41 pm    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Anything is acceptable, even swimsuits. If he loves you then a tux shouldn't be a problem.
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dodol5194



Joined: 02 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:49 pm    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Make a deal - do the big dress for the ceremony because you'll only get to do it once and then slip into a cute cocktail dress and go out on the town! It's not like he'll have to wear the tux for very long but at the same time you'll get your special moment to be "THE BRIDE!"
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dogs_n_bones



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 6

PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:57 pm    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Proper attire for any wedding, and especially a Vegas wedding, is really determined by WHO is getting married. I really really think that you should wear the dress of your dreams....and if you want your husband to be in a tux than he really should wish to please you and just wear it. Both my husbands wore tuxes for me Smile If he won't budge though you still need to wear the dress that feels right to you, don't regret this for the rest of your life and resent him every time you see the pics.
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drinmol



Joined: 11 Nov 2007
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Location: USA

PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 12:05 am    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Sorry. but I am with your fiance on this. I think people who want to dress in something ridiculous for their weddings are three bricks short of a wall. Why don't you be sensible. You'll only make yourself a laughing stock.
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dayzoning



Joined: 03 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 12:13 am    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Tell him your going to be married so if he doesn't want to spend his first night on the couch he'd better start listening.....Smile
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edundiree



Joined: 01 Nov 2007
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Location: Iceland

PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 12:21 am    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
I think you should reach a compromise on this. Especially since you've been dreaming about this since you were a little kid. How about you wear a somewhat formal dress (like a cocktail dress with extricate beading?) and he wears a tux.
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djoldgeezer



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 5

PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 12:29 am    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Most of the chapel websites have photo galleries. Show him how nice some of the brides and grooms looked dressed up. Once he sees that many brides and grooms in Vegas do dress up, perhaps he will reconsider?And even if he does not, still get yourself a beautiful bridal gown. It is important to you, and you should have it. It is okay to wear a bridal gown, even if he wears a suit instead of a tux.
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Doyle Valencia



Joined: 11 Mar 2007
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Location: United Kingdom

PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 12:37 am    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Hi and congratulations!I agree with Suz....all the venues have sites regarding weddings, so go on those and show them to your fiance. When I was in Vegas, I saw LOTS of brides/grooms and they all had gowns and tuxes on! Of course, it is totally up to you, but what are you doing after? Do you have a nice dinner planned? No reception? It does seem to be a waste of money to wear a gown for about 30 minutes....then that's it!You may want to compromise. Have him wear a nice suit and you in an informal gown! That way, you can go to a nice dinner after and not have to change! Good luck!
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diablo8934



Joined: 13 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 12:45 am    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
I´m an American married to a German, and I told my husband he could pick the location to marry, and I get to pick the honeymoon. We married in Las Vegas this past May and have been happy ever since.OK-I hope you´re marrying at Little Chapel of the Flowers-they are SUPER! We just got done watching our wedding video for about the 100th time and still smile and cry happy tears.OK-since I didn´t get the wedding I would have wanted-in a church in Chicago, I was still going to have the type of wedding I wanted. I wore a strapless, ivory colored dress with a really, really short train, and my husband wore a tux. My attendants wore a black cocktail dress that each of them had at home, or bought for the wedding, the best man wore a suit, and so did the other men that attended.I wore the dress a full length dress because I had a tea length dress picked out-really pretty-and then I overheard a mother in the shop say to another bride, "wear a full length dress...when are you ever going to be a bride again"? Well, I took the short dress off right away, shopped and picked out a long one, and am so happy I did. I would have been OK if my husband would have worn a suit, but he insisted on a tux, and the pictures look great.If you want, I will E-mail you pictures of our wedding, and you can show your fiance. We didn´t look silly---in fact, a lot of people asked us if they could have their pictures taken with us to show others how people get married in Vegas, and I saw a lot of other brides in long dresses there too.Hey, if you want, I can tell you how to have a small, very affordable time in Vegas-we did, and had money left over to buy a big screen TV. E-mail me directly at bloom12001@yahoo.com!
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Dreamer



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 12:53 am    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Vegas weddings can be anything you want to wear - and yes, it's your wedding - so wear what you want. You can wear a nice gown! If it's a smaller wedding, just make it less of a "big dress", maybe .I would suggest getting on the websites of some of the chapels and showing him some of the couples that have married there - many of the brides will be dressed to the hilt! I sure did when I married there in 98!Here's a community you can join for support- http://community.livejournal.com/vegasbrides/profileand a Chapel review site http://www.aboutvegasweddings.com/
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DocPhil



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 16

PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 1:01 am    Post subject: Attire For A Vegas Wedding? Reply with quote
Well, I got married last August in Vegas at the Mandalay Bay (great place BTW). I wore a real cute, short white dress and a short veil and killer shoes. My MOH wore a black & white polka dot dress, and the mom's wore black & white. Our wedding was kinda rock & roll in sprit, I guess - it was "us". I didn't want a "big poofy dress", so a short dress suited me, but if I had my heart set on a huge dress with a train I'd have worn one. I looked at this site - http://www.sensuousbride.com/ but my Mom vetoed them as way too sexy for the day - she said my aunt's pacemaker might go off!
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