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JAinSC

Joined: 20 Jan 2008
Posts: 4

Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 7:14 pm Post subject: do you think its ok to renew vows at 5 years in this situati

I think you should move on. Let it go. The wedding you did have was what it was.Sure things couldve been better but u urself said that it was a beautiful wedding. Even tho things didnt go the way u wouldve prefered in everything.. the mature thing to do is save your money for other more important things than a second wedding 5 years from the first. Its silly and your guests are going to think you were ungrateful and petty. Especially your husbands family. Truth is you shouldve been more assertive during your wedding planning. Sure your inlaw was taking over and doing things her way. But its your own fault if you didnt speak up for urself. You probably let it happen since she footed the bill. Be grateful instead of complaining. Could you have done better at that time if you had to pay for everything yourself?If you want you can still throw a party to celebrate an anniversary or just because but the whole idea of a wedding party and all that is plain silly.

HollyJo0531

Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 4

Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 8:04 pm Post subject: do you think its ok to renew vows at 5 years in this situati

Honestly, I agree with the other answers here that say let it go. I really do not understand at all the premise that someone forced you to have a certain type of wedding. If you were old enough to get married, how on earth did someone tell you what color you could wear, or what flowers you could or couldn't have? It sounds to me you want a do-over wedding and reception, not a vow-renewal. If it is the vows you truly want to do, just go away the two of you. It's kind of weird to have another reception, complete with wedding gown. You sound rather immature "I wanted party songs like YMCA. She threw away my CD. I wanted a poofy dress". By the way, punctuation helps.

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