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22whodgilsodles
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Location: Kenya
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| my husband and i had the same problem for our wedding - 2 of his groomsmen did not like eachother - not wedding related either, just stupid stuff. They were good friends up until 4 years ago...my hubby wanted them both in the wedding. And so when he asked them to be in the wedding (separately), he said, I would love for you to be a groomsman, but Josh will be in it too and I really want you guys to be cool the day of. If you cant, then I wont have either of you there"...and he said the same to the other guy. It ended up working fine. They were both in the wedding, very respectful, and no tension was sensed at all. If i were you, I would talk to each of them and ask them to please go through the wedding day with no drama. Tell them its your day and if they want to be a part of it, they need to be respectful of you and their brother. Good luck! |
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canada
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:57 am Post subject: Fighting bridesmaids? |
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| make it very clear to the two of them that this is NOT your arguement, you REFUSE to take sides or even give an opinion/make comment except to say that they had best not ruin any little part of your wedding with this nonsense..if they do, reguardless of who starts it they BOTH are out of the bridal party.....and sound like you mean it, Hon. It won't stop the mickey-mouse kindergarden nonsense but hopefully it will make them behave for the wedding...outside the weddng? Let 'em 'kill' each other (figuratively) Not your problem. |
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