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Chewclile
Joined: 28 Dec 2007
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 Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:19 am Post subject: For people that R.S.V.P.'d coming to your wedding and then d |
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| but sent you a gift, how do you thank them in the card??We are annoyed that they said they were coming and then didn't. Soon after we received a gift from them but in the card it didn't say anything about why they didn't make it. Also, they haven't contacted us to let us know why. (We emailed all of them before we left for our honeymoon to make sure everyone was alright but have not heard back). Normally, I would thank them for the gift and say we missed them at the wedding but that's for people that let us know that they were not coming, not for people we paid for and then didn't show (sorry can you tell I'm annoyed???? 8 people did this to us!!)Thoughts?Thank youThank you for your help. I am most definitely going to send them a thank you card, I just don't know how to word it. |
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chanray
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 9:40 am Post subject: For people that R.S.V.P.'d coming to your wedding and then d |
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| You just thank them for the gift and say you're so sorry they weren't able to share the day with you.You have to have better manners than they have. |
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cheapcigs
Joined: 06 Mar 2008
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 12:00 pm Post subject: For people that R.S.V.P.'d coming to your wedding and then d |
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| I would obviously still thank them, and I cant really say what I would do other than that. I too would be a little irritated, but I probably wouldnt say anything to them about it. |
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Cher7694
Joined: 28 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 2:21 pm Post subject: For people that R.S.V.P.'d coming to your wedding and then d |
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| You take the high road,darling. Send them a proper, handwritten note thanking them for the lovely and thoughtful gift - and telling them how much you missed sharing this special day with them.that's all.Don't bring it up ever again. If they want to tell you why they weren't there, they'll volunteer. Otherwise, let it slide. |
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CherylV4343
Joined: 02 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 4:42 pm Post subject: For people that R.S.V.P.'d coming to your wedding and then d |
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| My opinion... just thank them for the gift and leave it at that. |
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Changemelord9258
Joined: 12 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:03 pm Post subject: For people that R.S.V.P.'d coming to your wedding and then d |
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| thank them for the gift and say it's a shame you couldn't let us know you weren't coming to the wedding, we would have made other plans to see you before our honeymoon or after our honeymoon. use the word shame so they know they're @$$ holes |
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CheriS
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 9:23 pm Post subject: For people that R.S.V.P.'d coming to your wedding and then d |
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| That's pretty normal, people are just rude! Rise above it, and send a thank you card thanking them for the gift, and let them know you missed them at the wedding. |
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ChelsinkinK
Joined: 11 Aug 2007
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Location: Porn
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| Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 11:44 pm Post subject: For people that R.S.V.P.'d coming to your wedding and then d |
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| Remember it was your day, not theirs. You don't know what happened...maybe sickness, they forgot, something came up, etc. They were at least polite enough to send you a gift. Be polite back and thank them for the gift and let it go that they couldn't make it. It happens...and if there were only 8 that backed out on you be thankful it wasn't 10! |
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