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swirledmoonpie
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 Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 12:07 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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| my friend copies off of me constantly !and i dont' know what to do...she:-listens to the same music as me ; after i show it to her and she says she doesn't like that band then teh next day it's her "favorite band"- talks like me-wears the same shoes as me- i dye my hair black, she dies her hair black- i tell her that i have stolen stuff, and she asked how i did it, i told her and now she steals...just like me.- i think i have OCD, so does she.- i have a mental disorder and "so does she"- she likes the same people as me- almost has the same phone- i like photography and after i took an interest in it, and now its' her favorite thing now.and so much other stuff too ; it's annoying.and i dont' know what to do, help ?! |
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sweetpea21
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 12:25 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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| Just be a loner and you won't have this problem. GL |
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Taalisiv
Joined: 04 Jul 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 12:43 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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| Lol uh uh your so ignorant for saying "i steal and now she steals" .Well she adores you but be like when you watch a show like the hiils for example say tis your favorite show and you should be like since she likes copying u i can be lauren and you can be audrina since were friends anyway and she;ll go copy audrinas style and leave yours alone |
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SymonKlajn
Joined: 01 Nov 2007
Posts: 24
Location: Germany
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:01 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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| stop sharing your interests with her for a while. Instead, ask her opinion on things and copy her...it will show her how annoying and stupid it looks. |
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sweety
Joined: 03 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:19 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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| Start to distance yourself from her. i.e Don't go out of your way to talk to her, call her, hang out with her, etc. If she calls you.....1. You either don't pick up the phone or cut the call short. 2. If she wants to hang out....you're busy. I mean don't do it all at once, but start. She's obviously insecure........ |
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swevebutMub
Joined: 25 Oct 2007
Posts: 7
Location: Burkina Faso
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:37 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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| no clue but...she might be going though a phase or somethingyou might be her only friend for right thenif you want to be mean then...say you like something stupid to her and next time you see her be in a large group and bring up the subject of w/e subject what you told her is in and she might say she likes that and everyone might laugh at her i suggest dont do that though unless u want her to hate youGL |
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swevebutMub
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Location: Burkina Faso
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:55 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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Your friend obviously doesn't realize what she's doing is annoying you. She likes the way you act and dress, and she loves your personality. She wants to be exactly like you. I know what you're going through. I hate it when my friends all of sudden change their minds when my idea is different from theirs, and change the way they act to be exactly like me. It's really annoying, but I've realized it's just because they like the way I act. Now, copying somebody because you like what they've done once in a while is okay. But your friend has gone too far without realizing it. Your friend probably felt that everybody liked you and you were popular. She thought that to have everybody like her, she had to act like a likable person-so why not act like one she knows? So she chose you-her friend. But instead acting like a likeable person, she just annoyed you. Don't take it offensively-it's more like a really annoying compliment. Try talking to your friend. Tell her you like the real her-who isn't you. Tell her it's okay for you two to be a little alike, but you want to leave it at that. She needs to know that it's annoying you. She's your friend, so she should accept your feelings. Also tell her that she needs to be herself. Tell her that the world already has one of you, so they don't need a copy. Tell her you still want to be friends, but that it's okay for you two to be a little different. If your friend is a true friend, she'll understand. If your friend still doesn't stop, then maybe it's best to leave it be. If your friend wants to be somebody totally different then the real her to impress everyone, then that's her problem-cause' I don't think it's really impressing anybody. In the meantime, just be you. You can still talk to your friend and everything, but if you don't trust she won't copy you with something, then don't tell her about it. For example, if you have a favourite colour,don't feel obligated to tell her what it is. Everything will be fine, I promise.  -Claire  |
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sweetpekels
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:13 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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| if u like her talk about all the stuff that annoys u and discuss them with herand if u dont stand her just leave her awaybut i think she is doing that just 2 prove that u r alike sothat u might be close friends so tell her that she must be herself |
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tacosarethebest
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:31 am Post subject: friend copies off of me !? |
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| people copy other people because they look up to them if this other person were to be trying to be evil they wouldnt go as far as you say this person has more than likely she or he thinks you are a cool person and they are trying to be like you so other people think they are cool to if it was me i would give her some suggestions on how to be like you but a little different such as same hair style different color or same style clothes but not the same outfit this type of thing is a very common problem or situation i should say but like i said if i were you i would be proud that someone wanted to be like myself hope this helps |
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