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Kimmie
Joined: 02 Dec 2007
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| I found the chats on our 1 year wedding anniversary,he has already cheated and i found out 3 days before the marriage, but i forgave him and married him anyways. |
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Kita
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 10
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 8:44 pm Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| You made a mistake. |
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KINGKJORS
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
Posts: 11
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 9:22 pm Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| Leave him. He obviously doesn't care that much about the marriage or you. If he did, he would have never of cheated on you. |
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kimandryan20088985
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
Posts: 4
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 10:00 pm Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| I would kiss him in the a** |
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kimdetr
Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Posts: 12
Location: USA
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 10:37 pm Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| I would be on my way to divorce court. |
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Kim5238
Joined: 02 Dec 2007
Posts: 9
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 11:15 pm Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| I agree, you made a mistake. A husband only needs one girl in his life, his wife. |
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Kilotavr
Joined: 21 Dec 2007
Posts: 8
Location: The Bahamas
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 11:53 pm Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| He's a loser. Leave him! |
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kitty
Joined: 16 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 12:31 am Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| I found the same thing w/ my then b/f. He was telling other girls they were pretty...had beautiful smiles and eyes..and I married him too...and so far has been fine. I would confront him and ask him what it all means really? Because as one of the other ppl said in response to your question "there should only be one woman in his life..his wife" especially when talking that way..he should be saying those things to YOU! Stand up and confront him. Trust me, it will only get worse if you don't lay it all out on the table..Good luck! |
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kimmyg
Joined: 28 Dec 2007
Posts: 8
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 1:09 am Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| you made a choice to marry him, so you deal with the consequence of cheating |
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kiosokkn
Joined: 23 Feb 2008
Posts: 4
Location: USA
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 1:47 am Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| The behavior you describe is unacceptable. It is *not* okay for him to flirt or focus on other women. You should be his one and only significant female relationship. He should be putting all of that energy into loving you and becoming the best husband he can be.I hate that we can look back and second guess what you did a year ago. He violated your trust before your wedding. It would have been wise to delay the wedding while he PROVED his fidelity to you. Sigh.I would say he has some more PROVING to do here. DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES BRING CHILDREN INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP. Your kids don't need to pay the price for his infidelity and your mistake. |
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kinvafficabdp
Joined: 04 Mar 2008
Posts: 8
Location: World
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 2:25 am Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| you are stupid why would you marry this loser??? |
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Kimpak_myrddin
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 9
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 3:03 am Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| More fool you for marrying him when you knew he was a cheater. Never mind, learn from your mistakes - pick yourself up, brush yourself off and start all over again. i.e. leave him before you both get too bogged down with life's committments. Leave, leave, leave, NOW and start making your own life. |
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kinvafficaham
Joined: 06 Mar 2008
Posts: 4
Location: World
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 3:40 am Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| you should've listened to ur brain and not ur heart. if he cheated before the wedding that was a big red flashing light.i would sit down and tell him hey stop talking to these chicks or it's over. i was a fool once but never again. the key is sticking to your guns. i mean u can't really get mad now b/c u forgave him. u need some marital counseling or else there will be further trouble w/this guy. |
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Kita
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 10
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 4:18 am Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| leave him!! |
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kingdon
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 12
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 4:56 am Post subject: how would you feel if you caught your husband chatting with |
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| Yeah, I found an email where my wife stated that she doesnt love me, doesn't really like me and actually hates me (this was to the person that she did love, did like and didn't hate...)I wish you the best. You deserve more, I would walk. That was my last straw. |
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