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rorkassaubrek
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 Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 5:21 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| WOW, you sound like a wonderful mother and future mother-in-law....... |
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monebow
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 5:36 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| I think if you do that you will not only come of as Dsirespectful to your son and his wife but you will be looked as as VERY disrespectful in fron tof the whole family. I think that is a shame that you wouldn't be happy for your son. if you raised him, then you raised him well enough to make good decisions.Maybe it is you who can't see your son marrying anyone because you want control over something. Why would you want to harm someone's wedding day especially someone joining your family? How would you have felt had someone done that on your wedding day! I think you need to really think about these things. If you love yor son, you should support him, and then if she really does hurt him he will know you are there to pick him back up. Being vindictive isn't the way to go. |
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NannersandDaniel7572
Joined: 27 Apr 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 5:51 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| sound to me like you are the b*tch. regardless of how you feel about her you need to respect your son. my mom thought the same about my sister in law but they are happily married after almost 10 years of being married |
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SteveP
Joined: 11 Apr 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 6:07 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| Are you listening to yourself?! You're a hateful and controlling mother. I'm not surprised at all that your son has found a controlling, bloodsucking woman to marry. Afterall, YOU set the example for him. |
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msrobinhood
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 6:22 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| How Immature of you! Aren't you supposed to be the parent here? Its not up to you to decide who your son marries. If she is no good for him he will have to learn that the hard way, because no matter what you do or say, its not going to change how he feels about her. Plus if and when grandchildren come into the equation you will HAVE to find a way to get along, because you cannot act like little kids when raising or grandparenting children. Act like an adult and get over it. If shes that terrible he'll have to learn the hard way. He's getting married now, hes a man, its time for you to cut the umbilical cord now...... |
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Seilynne
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 6:37 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| Wow, Only thing I can tell you is kill her with kindness if she is a person out for his money. Even though you feel the way you do don't mess up your son's day and his wedding. He will resent you later. |
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phantasygirlhfc
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 6:53 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| I can honestly say that I feel so much pity for you and this whole situation. If what you say about her is even partly true and she is a "horrible wench", you are also painting yourself with the same brush.How utterly mean and cruel of you to do this not only to this son that you claim to love, but to his future bride and right before he deploys. Have you thought about the consequences of such an act? Is a memory of how his mother made a fool out of herself and portrayed herself as a mean, calculating, heartless woman at his wedding what you want him to take with him to Iraq?He is your son, but he is also an adult, capable of making his own decisions and mistakes. If you truly love him, then forget this stupidity and show yourself to be a lady. If you can't do that, then I suggest not going to the wedding. |
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rangel
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:08 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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Insted of playing a song to upset the Bride and give your son a wake up call, during the actual wedding ceremony itself, when the pastor/person marrying them asks if there are any objections, --then is your time to take your stand.The newlyweds could be so caught up in the moment (while dancing) that they might not even notice or care if the song is offensive.So you might need a more bolder method. Instead of pissing her off, with a song, tell it before the wedding party/at the ceremony, and see if anyone else agrees. If she really is as undesireable as you claim she is, others will agree.I hope this helps  |
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phantom8423
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:23 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| First thing First if your son is old enough (21) to go off to war he is not a BOY, at 21 he is a man, who can decide for himself who he loves and who he wants to be with and marry.You need to cut the strings and let him be his own Man.If this girl is as bad as you say (I highly doubt it) he will figure it out on his own.You made a comment about her being controlling, Have You looked in the mirror lately??Maybe your "momma's" boy doesn't want to be that anymore, Maybe is trying to get from under your controlling, motherly ways.I would back off before you end up causing more trouble than you want. You don't want to drive him away completely do you? Also you might want to think about the grandchildren that you could have one day..Do you want to be in their lives? If you do BACK OFF and calm down he isn't leaving you forever, he will still be your Son, but he is a grown Man.As for songs why would it piss her off? why do you want to ruin your son's wedding? Yeah thats a real good idea. make a fool of yourself and humiliate your son all at once.why not pick out a song that is special to you and your son? and be the Grown Up. How old are you?I am so glad that my soon to be mother in law is NOTHING like you. watch the move Monster In Law and pay ATTENTIONI feel sorry for your son and his futher wife.Through the Years- Kenny Rogers |
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oluchirr
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:39 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| First of all, the DJ will not play a song that is blatantly rude/disrespectful/hurtful/etc.Second of all, you think the word won't get out that you picked the song? You will BE the joke, instead of making her look foolish.Suck it up and be nice. Why? Because if you think she's bad yet, man, you ain't seen nothin' yet.... |
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missybishi
Joined: 08 Apr 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:54 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| Wow lady, God help your future daughter in law - my prayers will be with her - she'll need all the help from the Almighty she can get if she has to deal with you as a mother in law!Oh yeah one more thing - you should have your own entrance music for when they seat the mothers at the wedding - it should be the "Wicked Witch of the West" theme from the Wizard of Oz. Get over yourself lady! I really, really, really feel bad for your future daughter in law. You take the cake! You are AWFUL! |
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STARR0662
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:09 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| God, I'm so glad that my future MIL isn't like you! My fiance is in the military, too. She and I are of the same mind; make him happy. He might be going back to Iraq or Afghanistan soon, and he would not be his fully alert self if he thought we were at odds back home. Such a thing could cost him his life! I adore her, we think along similar veins, have similar tastes. Perhaps you should sit down and listen to her with an open mind. I'm betting you haven't so far.That other post was right. If you're looking for support of your position, perhaps asking a bunch of future brides wasn't the brightest move.By the way, it's spelled, NAIVE. |
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Nombeornefirting
Joined: 07 Oct 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:25 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| wow, bitterness and evil are dripping off this question. there is a witch in the family ma'am but it isn't the bride - its you. i would strongly suggest that unless you want your son to walk out of your life you learn to be a kind decent person and accept this young woman. if you don't you will end up being a very lonely old woman. your question reminds me of my own mother, a nasty-tempered, mean-mouthed, self-centered excuse of a woman who over the years has alienated every single person in her life and is now alone. because of her own behavior and nastiness she is missing out on a world filled with beautiful grand-children and great grand-children. i feel sorry for your soon to be daughter in law and i hope she is a strong girl who can withstand all the horrible things you have no doubt already done, and will continue to do. good luck to your son and his bride. |
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Melissa1128
Joined: 28 Apr 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:40 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| You sound like the kind of MIL nightmares are made of......Sure, Toots, smart move...P.O the woman your son is getting married to at his wedding much to his embarassment...boy, is that gonna rack up brownie points with him and make you look like such a gracious lady in front of all your friends & relatives...and her relatives as well....All you will do is make your self look like the b!tch you claim she is.....and maybe the 'B' is you...re-examine your attitude.......a wedding in no place for immature behavior...grow up. |
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strangestorm_0001
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:55 pm Post subject: I need a song to piss off the bride....? |
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| Way to act like the bigger person. If your son is 21 and nieve then he needs to make his OWN mistakes. It's the only way he'll learn. And mother in laws need to back off!!!! You don't realize how d*mn annoying you guys can be. While he may be your son, he's now my husband and future father to our children, and while he'll always love you.....he's cutting the cord you old hag!!!! |
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