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bobblebot
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 Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 12:44 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Get this tried 4 a baby together, wedding planned for last August, fall pregnant, on day I fond out I also find out he's been sleeping around with a 17 year old, he's 28 I'. 36. Day after I found out I start bleeding and think I'm having a misscarriage, I go for a scan alone and pay £95 to check if baby ok-it is. I give him one chance as he swears nhe won't do it again, I let him back. At 33 weeks I have just found out he was cheating with a girl called Kim too-who he says was just a 'shagg-buddy' who got pregnant and who had seen our baby's scan picture at side of his bed when they were screwing around. She had an abortion at 12 weeks as she said he was adamant about this. So 2 of us pregnant at same time, yes I know nhe loves me and wants me and the baby, but looks like he will always be a big rat and liar. He left me alone on Saturday and turned up well drunk at 2am in morning after going to a kids 1st birthday party..mmm yeh sure hey.By the way wedding got postponed thanks god.we live together so not as easy to 'just get rid', i also have my kids who love him to explain things to. he will be going he just doesn't know it yet.flaca i wanted to go to 1st birthday party he wouldn't let me. |
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burgler09
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 12:47 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| uh get rid of that guy now, are you stupid? |
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volleygirl955
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 12:49 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Wow sounds like you have a full plate... Maybe talk to him about all of this and come up with a plan. That doesn't mean that you have to stay together, but keep in mind your baby's future. |
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MS
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 12:52 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| If he's not the biggest rat, he's really close. So sorry! |
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goat
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 12:55 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| he's a rat and a bum and he won't be there for you |
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RickM
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 12:58 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| If you want him in your life tell him to get it together or else let him go...he cheated on you 2 times |
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MISSH
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:00 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| As painful as it is I would split. Make him live up to his obligation to the baby but I can't see him living up to his obligation to you long term. I like to think if you really want to you can give a cheater another chance. Sound's like he shagged his second chance away. Congratulations on your baby. Focus on that blessing and move on. Best of luck! |
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Amanda2867
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:03 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Well, it's totally up to you...But if I were you, I would take this as a huge warning sign, and get this man out of your life. You know he's a rat. You admit it yourself. So why stay with someone like that? He may love you, but if he is going to hurt you like this, is it really worth it? Don't you think that you and your future child deserve a man who can be there for you like a mature, loving father should be? Well, I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you make the the decision that makes you the happiest. |
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Rai
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:06 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| sounds like he's a piece of sh*t and you should not have even bothered taking him back the first time... c'mon you know- once a cheater, always a cheater! Seriously---- why did you bother with it? Oh well, the past is the past- but I think you can't change him. Really. It is up to you if you want to stay with him and what your tolorence is BUT you really do have a baby to think about- that should be your first priority. Don't mess the baby up because of your bad decisions. Follow your head and the possible futures for your baby- you should be able to come up with a good solution. |
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jack
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:09 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| just break up and get child support of his a** or give the baby up for adoption.he will always be that way. just imagine the std's u could of got. |
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ajsbananas
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:11 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| you could do a lot better for you and your baby. you need to ask your self is he going to let your baby down time and time again like he has you if he can do it once he'll do it again and again as he's already shown you it just up to you to how many time your going to take him bk |
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Flaca
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:14 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| I think you should throw all his clothes out a window and change the locks on him. But why didn't you go with to the 1st Birthday Party? |
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alexc
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:17 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| men like should just fall of the face of the earth.most of you girls deserve better, especially pregnant ones.---coming from a guy. |
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Bertus
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:20 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Go on Jeremy Kyle, he'll whip him into shape.See you there, 09:25am, ITV1hehe |
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princess
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:22 pm Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| u sure know how to pick them.... maybe u should get him to understand u dont take crap like that and prove it |
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