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JUNioptor
Joined: 16 Mar 2008
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| there's this picture of my boyfriend and i that my cousin took of us last summer. and i really don't know how it got out, but someone posted it on my cousin's myspace and was like "nice photography skills!" and she doesn't know the person, they friend requested her and she added them yesterday, and then they posted that. my cousin is 15, she's an aspiring photographer and wanted to take a sexy picture of a couple so we had let her. and her mom "monitors" her myspace and she saw the picture and showed it to my parents, and now i'm grounded from seeing him for a month. the picture is of us on his bed and neither of us have shirts on, we're both just wearing jeans. and i'm lying on the bed with my head on the pillow and he's on top of me kissing my neck and one of his hands is opening the button of my jeans and the other is in my hair, and my legs are around him. you can't see my boobs because his chest is covering them, but you can see the side of one of them, and basically it's just not something i want my freaking PARENTS to see. and now they're all concerned that i'm having sex with him, because if we were doing that 8 months ago, (we broke up shortly after that and just recently got back together), that we're for sure having sex now. we were already having sex back THEN, but they don't know that...and i don't really want them to. i'm 17, so i'm not like "YOUNG" but my bf is 20 and they really like him inspite of the age difference, but i feel like they hate him now. what do i do?? and how does a picture even get out to someone i don't even know?? especially now, like 8 months later! what do i do i have to see him like every day. i can't go a month!! how do i face my parents? now every time i look at them it's weird.im only grounded from seeing HIM, not from doing anything else. my parents will probably give in after a few days, but i'm more so just asking what i should say to them and how to make it not so awkward!to kash: there's nothing sick about my boyfriend's state of mind. my cousin is like my best friend, and she wants to be a photographer, and she was just like "can i pleease take some pictures of you guys, i have no couples to take pictures of" and we didn't think it was a big deal. none of them were THAT bad. she only took like 5 anyway. grow up. |
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esdfsdflast
Joined: 14 Feb 2008
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 2:44 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| lol you still get put on punishment? |
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keepyourhandsoffmycat
Joined: 12 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 3:31 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| Tell them that your mature. and you know how to handle things well. and know when to say no. And you know what to do when things are taken too far. |
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kanned0116
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 4:19 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| Well, try to explain to them that it REALLY was your friend wanting to try something out. But you have to understand that you're responsible too. I mean, you are 17. But just explain to them and tell them what's up. Tell them you're not a little girl anymore, but you won't do anything so bad to make them worry. I'm sure they'll understand. |
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Earth
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 5:06 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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You'll forget all about how embarassed you are later. Do your time, and next time, keep your naughty pics off myspace.... anyone can see....Put your pics on private only for your friends to see, or anyone can stop by your page and save them to their computer.EDIT:lol. I feel your pain. Just give it a couple days, and if they will drop it, just put on a brave face, apologize to them and tell them it won't happen again. If you take issue with lying, you're agreeing to never let them see naked pics of you on the internet.  And don't listen to these people who call you a slut. It's not like you guys were doing amateur porn of anything. |
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Buboffesphm
Joined: 05 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 5:54 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| If you act like a slut, take pictures and have them posted on the Internet, then you have to deal with the fall out. And your parents are worried you are having sex..... what's the problem? They are right, you admitted that you have been for eight months. I just hope when you get pregnant that your boyfriend is still around and is able to pay child support, or will that become your parent's problem?Sounds like you might need to grow up and quit sounding like an irresponsible kid. |
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Cekarguerah
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 6:42 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| okay youre parents arent going to be thrilled that you were topless but just explain to them what that was and you wouldnt have sex till... whenever. and just say that you and your boyfriend are still just trying to get other things sorted so right now you wouldnt even dream of having sex with him and everything. seriously just explain to them- youre gonna have to talk to them about it sometime. |
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Jolene
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 7:29 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| its not the end of the world, dont worry. Im not sure how strict your parents are or how well they stick to their decisions but i know when i was young and my parents told me i was grounded for a long period of time from something it usually never lasted more than a week. although 17 seems rather old for groundings in my opinion.i would sit your parents down and talk to them about it. i know its awkward, but you need to just tell them straight up that your cousin wanted to take an artistic photo and she set it up and you know its wrong what you did and you understand why youre in trouble for the picture and you never thought it would be posted and that you regret your decision making, but you hope that they can understand that you're a smart person and you have learned from your mistake. I bet if you took the initiative to sit down and speak with them about it and tell them how embarassed and sorry and regretful you are about the entire situation that they will forgive you an probably ease up on the grounding. I would hope at least but every parent is different.if not... just remember absence truly does make the heart grow fonder! |
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jenisilly80
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:17 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| The only thing you can do is respect your parents. Realize that they are dealing with the realities that their little girl is growing up and that is hard for parents. In the same way no one like to visualize their parents having sex, parents don't want to visualize their daughter having sex.Honor being grounded. Talk to them about sex. Seriously, sometimes we need to have "the talk" with our parents 'cause they can't deal with it. The fact is you're a young woman and relationships are going to be a part of your life. If you take the mature approach to this with them, maybe it will help them realize that you are growing up and they need to grow with you.On the other side, you're only seventeen. Be selective about your sexual activity. It's your body and your choices, choose wisely and be always protect yourself.Good luck! |
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drdodoo
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 9:04 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| well, be smart. why let your fifteen year old cousin take pics of you half nude then post them on MYSPACE for half the world to see. idiots. teenagers...CHILDREN...these days |
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axsllikab
Joined: 05 Jan 2008
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Location: Germany
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 9:52 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| Nothing is hidden forever. Do the time and be more careful in the future as to what pictures you have taken until you are living on your own. For as long as you live at home you must live by your parent rules. |
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concernedjean
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 10:40 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| They're dealing with the shock of "little girl growing up" and are freaking out. It SHOULD blow over, especially if they engaged in similar behavior when they were your age. Also: Trust issues-tell them if they don't trust you, there's not a lot you can do about it, but if you're gonna do the time, why not do the crime? I would argue that they're removing any incentive you HAVE to be trustworthy. I would either sneak out and see him or just tell them you're going to go see him: Whether or not its with their permission is up to them. Parents would rather know where their kid IS than not, grounding someone for something that happened a YEAR ago is ridiculous. You're a good kid and they shouldn't treat you like a criminal. |
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Flamoumb
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:27 am Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| Okay, I was about to give a heartfelt answer to this question until I read the very last part that says "what do i do i have to see him like every day. i can't go a month!! "and then I just became frustrated. Just go the month. I haven't seen my boyfriend in 5 months and there are women out there that haven't seen their man in almost a year. Stop bitching. you took a dirty picture, your parents saw it and now you're in trouble. You still live under your parents roof so you have to follow their rules and punishments. Just shut up. |
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crisicasep
Joined: 19 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 12:15 pm Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| u can tell them whatever u have written here. but hey its kind of freaky y ur under 18 girl wanted a sexy pic? Strange. Never in life allow sm1 to have ur pic, even a bf can misuse it in case of a break up. For now i'd say just tell the truth to ur parents n u can even ask ur causin if she can tell them that it was on her terms. Tell them u r responsible n u did nothing dirty- pray to God later on to excuse u 4 it lol, lieing parents isnt gud but at this moment only that is the way out. i never get in2 such things coz i know young age isnt full of commitment always n its too early to get to deep feelings or ... |
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BostonDoctorTTT
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| Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:02 pm Post subject: my parents saw a "sexy" picture of my boyfriend and i, and n |
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| The only thing I can say is "congratulations" to your cousin's mom for doing something all mothers should do...monitor their children's computer usage.I could care less about the problem you or your boyfriend are facing with your parents. The fact is that there's something really wrong/sick with encouraging a 15 y/o (possibly a 14 y/o at the time) to participate in taking such a picture...and considering that your boyfriend was still an adult at the time, there's definitely something sick with his head. |
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