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PK
Joined: 13 Dec 2007
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 Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 8:03 pm Post subject: my wedding officiant wants to clash!??!!? |
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| I wouldn't give it a second thought. Most of your pictures will be with just the wedding party. The few showing the officiant will just be with you and your hubby. I'm pretty sure yellow will look fine with your white/ivory dress and his suit. |
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Reid
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 9:03 pm Post subject: my wedding officiant wants to clash!??!!? |
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| No, you are not being silly! This is not about your officiant - it's about you!! If she were to stand up there in bright freakin yellow who's going to stand out???...HER! To me it sounds like someone might be jealous or have some underlying issue. Tell her that the dress she picked out will not work for your scheme (like you really need to) and requested that she take it back. If she refuses replace her as she's showing that she isn't a true friend. This makes me wonder if she's trying to pull this for your special day what other turmoil will she attempt to bring to your marriage?! Just my 2 cents... |
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sharkattack226
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 10:04 pm Post subject: my wedding officiant wants to clash!??!!? |
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| I'm going to go against the grain here and say I think you're overreacting. Nobody is going to notice or care! Plus, is she going to be in your photos? Not likely. I think yellow goes with pink and lavender anyway, but seriously... who cares. I've never heard of a bride telling the officiant what to wear. |
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Smiley
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 11:05 pm Post subject: my wedding officiant wants to clash!??!!? |
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| You are being as silly as they come. You don't get to pick how everyone at the wedding dresses. You are not queen for a day. |
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Sakkola
Joined: 12 Aug 2007
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| Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 12:05 am Post subject: my wedding officiant wants to clash!??!!? |
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| I'm aghast at how many people think it's OK for you to dictate what the officiant wears. Are you telling all the guests how to dress, too? Why on Earth do you care what she's wearing? What is she going to clash with? Do you plan on having her in all the wedding party photos? Of course not. What, then, is she going to clash with? Is anyone who is going to be in any photo required to wear a shade of pink or purple? You're way out of line, here, in my opinion. |
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Pooriekali
Joined: 19 Sep 2007
Posts: 6
Location: All
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| Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 1:06 am Post subject: my wedding officiant wants to clash!??!!? |
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| If you were being married by a priest or judgewould you tell him their robes clashed and insist they get something that matches, yess you are being silly. |
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