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MochaC
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 Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 12:59 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| So since we almost always hear a girls view of a dream wedding lets ask the guys.So guys what your idea of a dream wedding? What season would you get married in? How many people would you invite?If you were completely in control of the whole ceremony and money was limitless how would you decorate, celebrate, and anything else you can think of. Girls you can still answer too. |
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Val
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:13 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| well as a guy hereI would not say most the guy would bother to think of itbecause most of the males are not serious in relationhowever,I am kinda weirdI have a great imagination for my marriage and I always discuss it with my girlfriend and now my fianceeI have dreamed of a marine marriage where me and my wife will be married in the Undersea world in some kinda zoo and there is priest in the aquarium too and write I do in a paper and show it to the invited people in the observation alley for the aquariumbut that is just too imaginativeI have came up to a Garden weddingwhere it's held on a grass land which face to the ocean around 5Pmand people will have finger food on the weddingkinda simple and nice...dream of that day to come.... |
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LabRat
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:28 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| Mellow wedding in nice but comfortable clothes.Small group that likes to party.Chill by the lake in Spring.Did the whole massive expensive wedding. It sucked. Then there was the massively expensive divorce, which sucked too.Life's too short. |
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irishbarfight
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:42 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| Being that I've spoken with my husband many times on the subject..I can answer for him on this. He wasn't into all the "bells and whistles" that I was, but he DID want things to be nice. "Simple elegance" as he calls it. The smaller reception, the better according to him. Luckily, we both agreed on that. Honestly..the only thing my husband REALLY really chimed in about was that he wanted a "raw bar" for both the cocktail hour and reception. He's a big seafood person, so this was an absolute must in his book. Other than that...he left the rest up to my judgement. |
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acedelux
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:57 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| I had a dream I got married. I woke up in a sweat and my heart was pounding. I realized I was still single, then I calmed down. |
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David
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 2:11 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| Dream wedding:We go to the Justice of the Peace and get married. When we return to our new abode, it's filled with presents from wellwishers. We honeymoon the night away, then go to McDonald's. |
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CBTPrincess5890
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 2:26 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| Guys aren't into it - they just lack the "wedding gene", I think. Most of them would make it low key, destination, small and non-formal if you ask |
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Ladybugs776630
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 2:40 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| I agree with CBT but ya know what..I think simple destination eloping is so cool and wish I would have done it. Notice when you see a wedding happening it is always the mom and bride doing all the planning not the groom and dad because they just don't care. They care about marrying the woman they love and the details mean nothing. I think it is cool and romantic. I think the first posters dream wedding is awesome because it is imaginitive and romantic. |
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RB8898
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 2:55 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| This is awesome! I can answer for my son who recently got married. He wanted to get married in Thorncrown Chapel in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. However, it was too far away and there was too many family members would couldn't have been there, so he knew it wasn't realistic. He and his fiance attended a church that meets in a multi-purpose facility. He didn't want to get married there because he said the photos would be ugly. He and his fiance visited a few local Churches and ended up getting married in a beautiful sanctuary with a majestic pipe organ. The bride would have been content with the multi-purpose facility, so I guess the groom's thought were instrumental in the decision about their wedding location. After that, he kept saying he just wanted the bride to be happy. About the season. He wouldn't get married during football season because he didn't want to miss a football game each year to celebrate his anniversary. (I know, gals! It's nutty...) He's also very involved in a camping organization and wouldn't get married during their camping season, for the same reason. So, they got married between camping and football seasons. |
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ShaLaLaLaLaLaMyOhMy
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 3:09 pm Post subject: Men and weddings? |
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| My fiance wants to be very involved in our wedding. Most of the ideas were even his, not mine, and i actually love that. I didn't want to be the only one planning "our" big day. He wants it to be on the day we met (june 7), he wants a small church wedding that was very traditional, He picked the food, He was very adament about having absolutely no alcohol (neither of us drink)- we're toasting with dr. pepper. It means a lot to me that he wants his say in things as well as letting me have my dream wedding |
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