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teogassi
Joined: 04 Nov 2007
Posts: 3
Location: Canada
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 Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 9:43 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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| Me and my fiancee been together for 1yr8mths and finally we decide to settle down as in getting married. We were so happy and looking forward on our solemnisation day. Our relationship filled with happiness, sincerity, honest and love... we even applied for a new home for us after the big day. Wedding ring and deco is all fix... so we waited n waited n waited. 3days to our big day, my fiancee can't been reached. I try to call her cell but it was off...even her family didn't know where she is. I was like a mad man looking and asking around for her,i try to text her cell but no reply and i even make a police report but no responed. So i waited... 1day to go and my cell beep. I look at the text and it was from her..the text shown "Am so sorry Zac...i cant be with you". Am speechless, down on my knee and breakdown...why do god do this to me??? After that... she's missing in action silently. Our big day is on 14/04/07, its all memory afterall... I seem lost n alone now... |
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SuperMigel
Joined: 23 May 2007
Posts: 3
Location: Mexico
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 9:59 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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| Sounds like she got a case of the cold feet. I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you. But you might have to come to the realization that she is not ready to marry and possibly move on with your life. |
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PurrfectPeachLenElly
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 5
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:15 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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| Oh, I'm so sorry, hon...that was the coward's way out.Sounds cliche but it's better now than after you married.Time will heal you...surround yourself with those you trust the most to comfort you. God bless you. |
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Sizianos
Joined: 13 Jun 2007
Posts: 3
Location: Hungary
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:32 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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omg. i m sooo srry. tht is terrible. maybe she got cold feet brrrrr that must feel cold for you. i kno it seems hard now, but soon ull be walkin in the light again. u sound nice and she'll hav to talk to u again about expenses and stuff. either ull work it out with her or ull find the real woman of your dreams. i kno it sounds a bit cheery now but god does not ignore nice people. its karma  good luck i hope i helped a tiny bit |
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shano2006
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
Posts: 3
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:48 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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| Wow that was a close call. You are a Lucky bas*ard. |
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_hexas_iniloi_
Joined: 30 Apr 2007
Posts: 5
Location: Germany
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:05 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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| Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that, but ultimately she did you a favor. Better to not go down that road with someone who wasn't 100%. |
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winter_spice787713
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
Posts: 5
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:21 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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| dude u got broomed this is funny |
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Renegade
Joined: 28 May 2007
Posts: 2
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:37 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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| On the one hand I feel sorry for you. All wound up for a great life and then BOOM, it all falls apart. But consider yourself lucky that this happened now rather than after the wedding. Be glad your wife didn't disappear after you had your first child or your second. As sad as this seems it is better to have the crisis of disappointment now then later. I'm sure your fiancee will show up eventually, and when she does you'll be there ready to take your anger out on her with all of your glory. Don't feel for a moment that you are alone. All of your friends and family will be there for you in this crisis. Get a therapist and dump all of your emotions during your sessions. Eventually you will come to grips with a lousy situation. I can imagine a love-hate feeling going on right now inside of you. That's going to be around for a long long time. Take care of yourself and prepare for the misery you will inflict on your ex-fiancee when she finally winds her way back into your life. She can't stay away forever, and you'll be waiting patiently for her with bat in hand when she does. (metaphorically speaking of course)Sorry about your situation. Good luck. |
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waleska985
Joined: 14 Oct 2007
Posts: 3
Location: Rochester, NY
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:54 pm Post subject: My World Is Dark...? |
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| I'm sorry. Do you have friends and family that could offer you some support. Also, did you all have any problems prior to the planning of the wedding? did she have any problems before. It seems unfair now, but God has a plan for us all. He doesn't give us more that we could handle. Maybe this is from God you never know. I know you must love her or you would have never gotten this far in planning. Have you text her back? |
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