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TimothyM
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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 Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 4:48 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| I just want to ask for those who got married. Were you able to invite all the people who are important to you on your wedding day.I was just wondering. I have this friend (or maybe we're not friends). They invited a lot of people from our community but they didn't invite me. Some people who weren't invited weren't even that close to them.........And money isn't even an issue for both of them because they're both rich. And no, the wedding invitation didn't get lost because we see each other in person most of the time so they could have given it to me. Well........share your experiences. |
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VINTAGEMUSIC
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 5:01 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| No, but we don't regret it.We gave ourselves a limit of 75 people and stuck to it. Some of our really good friends weren't invited, but that's ok. We just wanted to keep it small, and invite people that meant a whole lot to us.Good Luck! |
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tieck_eckjo
Joined: 23 Apr 2007
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Location: Los Angeles
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 5:14 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| man sounds like they just dont like you very much, that sucks. You know what dont bring it up, but dont be as cool with them Ex them out of your life. that's a big slap in the face. Now you know where you stand. Dont dwelle on it, just forget them. Night night. |
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Zinger
Joined: 21 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 5:27 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| I only invited the people I wanted to share our day with. If you received no invite - maybe your friend does not see you as a close friend or maybe they are upset about something. If you are really concerned ask her (providing you have that type of friendship) otherwise let it go...get on with your life....and when you get married return the favour of NO invite.Good Luck |
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vachclicads
Joined: 24 Oct 2007
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Location: Nicaragua
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 5:40 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| might be she thought you already knew about the wedding and she just skip the invitation since she met you most of the time.you should acknolwedge that..you already know about the wedding so why bother to wait another 'invitation'...you already a part of her wedding day... |
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WerftgGyh
Joined: 17 Sep 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 5:53 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| The first time I got married my parents picked the people to invite, so no I didn't get to invite whom I wanted.This time however I get to pick cause they are NOT paying for it! |
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rmjavier94
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 6:06 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| I never got to have a wedding...we went to the court house...I sure wish I had of had one...we are doing a renewal and we are doing only family and I am inviting one very close friend and thats it...our renewal is next year...Nov 1 will be 41 years for us... |
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Verumiklao
Joined: 14 Oct 2007
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Location: World
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 6:19 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| We only invited friends that we still interact with regularly. We have "friends" from high school and college that we see maybe once every few years, they did not get invited. We wanted our wedding to be more intimate. |
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WerftgGyh
Joined: 17 Sep 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 6:33 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| My friend is trying to plan her wedding and had to decide between a big wedding and a small wedding. I think it depends on the atmosphere of the wedding how many people they planned on inviting. It can be true that they really just had to prioritize who was most important to them to be there. Not to say that you aren't important to them, but they may have had to make some hard decisions.If my friend had invited everyone they had wanted to invite, they'd have 500 people. You can't assume that money isn't an issue, because if they have a budget, they have a budget. Even if they are rich, I wouldn't say it couldn't be pinpointed to just that.I wouldn't feel that it is personal, because there are probably others who didn't get invited. I would just wish them the best, but if you are still feeling like you were snubbed, ask her how her wedding was and maybe that will prompt her to give you an explanation. Even then, I'd wait a little while so it doesn't create any more bad blood. |
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Taliikas
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
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Location: Germany
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 6:46 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| Oh Dear you are hurt.It is not always possible to invite everybody to your wedding. A limit has to be put on costs at some stage otherwise it would all get out of hand.Sometimes it is the parents of the bride and groom who do the guest list.If I were you, I would send a very nice gift and attend the church to wish them luck |
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Tialenna
Joined: 22 Jun 2007
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Location: France
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 6:59 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| No we didn't....because we paid for everything and we had to pick and choose who we wanted to be there. Some people that we have no problems with were not invited, while other people whom I don't care for too much were invited out of "obligation" (some one who got husband a job AND works with him now). Inviting people to a wedding isn't as easy as most people think it is....it really depends on whose paying, the maximum capacity of the venues, if parents are trying to put their 2 cents into it, etc. Try not to let it hurt your feelings,....if they treat you well every other day of the week, chances are they had to make a tough decision for some reason or another. |
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VormAbagAtott
Joined: 14 Nov 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 7:12 am Post subject: Did you invite all your friends at your wedding? |
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| yes we did, we invited everyone that has been there to support us and the ones we love, that only totalled 45 people so was an affordable number for us, we had such a great day. |
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