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Xena
Joined: 22 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 9:36 am Post subject: I have a phone number to a friend from the past... would it |
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| When I went to college several years ago I made a really good friend! We were, well, college best friends. I had never known her before but we did everything together. Then I had to leave to help my parents back at home- they were having some medical and personal issues and needed help with the siblings and running stuff. So, I tried to keep in contact with her- we were calling and e-mailing, then after a while I didn't talk to her for a long time, she called me to invite me to her wedding as her personal attendent about a year later... I went and after that I just never called her. I was there for her wedding day, got the thank you but we just never have called since. I still have her number and I know it is active and the same. It's been almost 2 years and I don't even live near her. I just wanted to catch up, would it be too awkward to just call? Or just leave it and not waste her day and that general banter? |
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SusanO
Joined: 22 Nov 2007 Posts: 7
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 10:00 am Post subject: I have a phone number to a friend from the past... would it |
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| I don't think that would be weird at all. If you guys were as good of friends as you say you were then I'm sure she would be more than happy to hear from you. |
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yankabilliechic
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 7
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 10:24 am Post subject: I have a phone number to a friend from the past... would it |
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| I would call her! I like it when people from my past look me up. It is fun to catch up. Just don't have too high of expectations. It never is the same as it was, but sometimes it is fun just to talk to an old friend. I doubt it will hurt anything. Unless you had some big fight or something which it doesn't sound like you did, then she would probably think it was nice to hear from you. |
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Wesksmell
Joined: 14 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
Location: USA
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 10:48 am Post subject: I have a phone number to a friend from the past... would it |
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| If she's really your best friend, then i don't think it's weird to call just to keep in touch eventhough you have not contacted her. Maybe call her and hang out or something for starters just to catch up with each other. |
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Pruwljakovuch
Joined: 30 Nov 2007 Posts: 9
Location: USA
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 11:12 am Post subject: I have a phone number to a friend from the past... would it |
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| call her, u act like its a old boyfriend how do u kno she hasnt been thinkn of you,call her she will be happy! |
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Riiwipa
Joined: 24 Sep 2007 Posts: 5
Location: Yes
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 11:36 am Post subject: I have a phone number to a friend from the past... would it |
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| I think it can't hurt to call her and say, hey- how's it been going! Maybe she will want to talk- and maybe she won't. You will get the idea in her tone. Time changes people a little bit but it sounds like you were pretty good friends then. It is hard to keep track of college friends because they weren't "home town" friends, but maybe call her and also ask if she has an e-mail or something, then you two can work a little easier into the friends again pattern. You never knows, maybe you are feeling compelled to call her because she needs a friend right now... I say do it. |
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WessGranny5673
Joined: 03 Dec 2007 Posts: 4
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 12:00 pm Post subject: I have a phone number to a friend from the past... would it |
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| By all means, call her! Don't lose your friend. |
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