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pontieree
Joined: 23 Nov 2007
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Location: France
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 Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:16 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| See, this is EXACTLY why having sex before marriage isn't a problem!!! You need to know if you're compatable in all aspects before taking the plunge. |
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Poohiopea
Joined: 03 Jun 2007
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Location: United Arab Emirates
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:22 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| Don't just focus on the carnal aspect of sex, view her as a complete woman appreciating the great and wonderful person she is and she will be more attractive to you. Beauty is not just skin deep, it's embracing the person wholeheartedly and seeing all that is beautiful about them, not mere physical appearance. A soul & spiritual connection are much stronger and intense then a purely physical one, learn to appreciate and be thankful for those, focus on them and your attitude will change in no time! Everyone has beauty in them, just find it and focus on it! |
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POLLYPOPPY
Joined: 31 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:28 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| Watch porn together........that did it for my wife and now i get Bjs all the time.........its a wonderful life |
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Poloi
Joined: 31 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:34 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| Both of you need makeovers desperatley cause even love can lead to attraction so...ask yourself- why are you not attracted to her if you have such an intense bond? Figure it out and change it - if it's only appearance...that can be changed in many different ways!! |
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Poloi
Joined: 31 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:39 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| maybe you feel more like she is a friend to you than a wife. |
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PontiJavs
Joined: 30 Oct 2007
Posts: 62
Location: Anal
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:45 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| This is a blessing that you both do not know. It is actually mentioned in the Vedic literature that when a man marries a woman with no desires of sexual activities or self gratification, then he truly is in love and not in lust. I am actually happy that you both are going through this. I have something very helpful for you if you wish(contact me and I will send it to you), which will help you both very much in your marital life. Sex is actually only meant for procreation and it is said that the couple should perform courtship as less as possible. Well, contact me if you really need help on this matter and you both will not regret having the knowledge I wish to share with you. Stay calm(its unusual, but great), and pray you both stay blessed. |
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PontoYiufc
Joined: 05 Nov 2007
Posts: 63
Location: Tramadol
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:51 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| Have you tried a threesome?? Maybe it works for both of you........ |
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pontieree
Joined: 23 Nov 2007
Posts: 39
Location: France
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:57 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| I think you might need to seek therapy. However, have you ever tried having drinks with her? Seriously, down a couple of bottles of wine, and loosen up with each other. |
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pontieree
Joined: 23 Nov 2007
Posts: 39
Location: France
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:02 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| why do I have a feeling your from another culture?This happens often with foreign men they view there wife as the virgin marry not a sexual object.I think she needs to put on something sex and not look so much like a friend I am sure at that point you will not be able to help your urge.Go get her a little black dress encorage her to be sexual and open with her body. |
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PontiJavs
Joined: 30 Oct 2007
Posts: 62
Location: Anal
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:08 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| Are you gay? You didn't have sex on your wedding night?? I'm just curious have you guys consummated your marriage? |
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Poohiopea
Joined: 03 Jun 2007
Posts: 43
Location: United Arab Emirates
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:14 pm Post subject: i found my wive is not sexually attractive, i can't make lov |
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| Counseling is the best idea...I'm sure she would welcome the chance to build a good sexual relationship with her husband. You can also try to explore this feeling of wanting to protect her. Do you feel she's fragile? Or depressed? Perhaps you could try to play with it in your mind, where being protective of her means trying to make her happy and give her feelings of euphoria and excitement, rather than sheltering her. You are a man and you want to take care of her, correct? That means giving her a passionate connection with you...making her feel loved and desired...taking care of her heart and psyche rather than her physical body. She's a big girl...she'll tell you if anything is unpleasant. Good luck. |
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