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dMae7128607



Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:12 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
My cousin is getting married in two weeks and my husband and I are going just as guests. I ahave a black knee length halter dress and was going to wear black heels. My husband is going to wear a black suit with a royal blue shirt under the jacket. I was just curious to see if black is appropriate attire for something like this. I have never been to a wedding before so I wasn't sure. And from what I have been finding out, noone else is really going to be all dressed up.. Also it is a church wedding.Although I know most everyone else isn't going all out on dressing up, I feel it is customary to dress nice for a church wedding. I don't care if we are the only ones doing it. It is out of respect.
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DocPhil



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:18 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
black is ok for the wedding. the only color i've ever heard to be bad is white.
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DoctorFoo



Joined: 13 Jan 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:24 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
If it is an evening wedding, I don't see a problem with it - in fact, I've seen it alot. Wear what you are comfortable with - I think both of you will look lovely. I also agree about the church part.
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dlgpkg



Joined: 13 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:29 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
It's fine, especially when paired with another brighter color. The first poster was right, it's worse to show up wearing white.
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dksal



Joined: 02 Dec 2007
Posts: 18

PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:35 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
might as well, when you get married thats the end of your life anyway...so why not black bad wedding jokeof course its kool to wear black...go ahead..black and white will be prettty
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doclakewrite



Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:41 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
Black is good for a wedding : )
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doclakewrite



Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:47 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
Yes, black is fine.The last 5 wedding I've attended, I've worn black. I have not been spoken about or looked at negatively at any of those events.Black for cocktail dresses and evening wear is very common and acceptable now. Almost every women has a little black dress in their closet. So, it's understand to wear it to a wedding.Go with the black halter dress, it's seems fine.Anyone that has an issue with black is living in the dark ages. Black is just a color and does not mean you oppose a marriage.
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DocPhil



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:52 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
The old saying that black is only for funerals is so out of date. You can never go wrong with a little black dress. Well I guess you can if the two hags (I mean sisters) of the bride go out and buy the same black dress and then act like they're in mourning all night, that is until they get hammered and then they get into a scrap over the bridal bouquet! Sorry, just a little anecdote I thought you might find funny! Yes this actually happened at my brothers wedding (the ugly sisters of the bride are true withches). That is the only time I've seen black done in bad taste! You and your husband will look great and good on you for knowing it is appropriate to dress up for a church wedding! Have fun!
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dmbbnl23



Joined: 13 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:58 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
Black is a flattering colour for the majority of women and I think that as long as it's not head - to - toe black like some Italian widow then it's fine. Break it up with some coloured accessories and you will look fab.
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DoctorFoo



Joined: 13 Jan 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:04 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
black is fine,as long as no one wears white
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docphi



Joined: 21 Nov 2007
Posts: 19

PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:09 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
Wearing black to weddings is classy. Your husband and you will look great.And don't worry about looking too formal - the length of your dress and the royal blue shirt on your husband will tone down your look.
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dlgpkg



Joined: 13 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:15 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
Black is absolutely fine. Although I have to say, I moved to the south recently, and wore black to a wedding... and got stared at by female guests WEARING WHITE to the same wedding lol
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dMae712



Joined: 24 Jan 2008
Posts: 16

PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:21 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
well i wore a black dress to a wedding once but it had a tan colour underneath it but i don't think there would be a problem wearing a black dress it would look very sophisticated and elegant Smile
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docftg



Joined: 25 Oct 2007
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Location: USA

PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:26 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
Absolutely. It's ashame that no one else is going to be dressed up, because I think that not dressing up for a wedding is showing a lack of respect for the occassion.
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dksal



Joined: 02 Dec 2007
Posts: 18

PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:32 am    Post subject: Is wearing black to a wedding ok??? Reply with quote
Black is fine
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