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DocPhil
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 16
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:32 am Post subject: How do you let guests know the appropriate attire for the we |
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| We are getting married at a restaurant (out on their terrace) and then having our reception in one of their banquet rooms. The restaurant's dress code is business attire after 6 pm. Our ceremony will start at 4 pm, reception at 6 pm. This is all fine with me - I wanted somewhat formal/traditional attire for our guests, but I don't know how to tell people they need to wear business attire. Do you put that info in the invitation? On the RSVP card? Should we call everyone and tell them personally? |
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dksal
Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Posts: 18
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:44 am Post subject: How do you let guests know the appropriate attire for the we |
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| I'd put it in the invitation. "Dress is business attire" |
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dlgpkg
Joined: 13 Dec 2007 Posts: 11
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:55 am Post subject: How do you let guests know the appropriate attire for the we |
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| it is customary to put attire on your invitation....put something like this after the rsvp info.Formal/Business Attire Please.thats how its done |
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docphi
Joined: 21 Nov 2007 Posts: 19
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 7:07 am Post subject: How do you let guests know the appropriate attire for the we |
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| Put guidance on a separate card and send it with your wedding invitation. |
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docphi
Joined: 21 Nov 2007 Posts: 19
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 7:18 am Post subject: How do you let guests know the appropriate attire for the we |
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| put it on the bottom of invite...when they look back to check place etc...they will see it...RSVP cards come back to you...or place a seperate card in with invite and make sure they know there is a strict dress code.... |
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dlgpkg
Joined: 13 Dec 2007 Posts: 11
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 7:30 am Post subject: How do you let guests know the appropriate attire for the we |
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| On the inavtation put: Attire is Buisness/Formal.Buisness and Formal are the same thing! Good luck! |
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docftg
Joined: 25 Oct 2007 Posts: 6
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 7:41 am Post subject: How do you let guests know the appropriate attire for the we |
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| Put it on the invitationPeople save the invitation to remind them of the date, location etc. So that is where you want to place business attire please. |
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dMae712
Joined: 24 Jan 2008 Posts: 16
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 7:52 am Post subject: How do you let guests know the appropriate attire for the we |
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| I have never heard of an invitation saying anything other than "Black Tie" or "White Tie" when it comes to wedding attire. Why should you say "Business Attire" -- it's not a job interview! I would think that getting a printed wedding invitation, and the tone of the wording, implies that your guests should dress appropriately. If anything, I would personally tell people that you might not think would show up wearing suits, dresses, etc. I definitely would NOT put it on the invitation and would think it quite odd (if not slightly offensive) if someone felt they had to tell me how to dress for an occasion as special as a wedding. Do we have to tell people how to dress for funerals, baby showers, football parties, graduations, etc??? I think we should all know enough to dress up for a wedding! |
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