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FarajS
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 Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:27 pm Post subject: To invite or not to invite? |
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| well lets see who's wedding is this ????? i would invite them you will be too busy to be bothered any way don't worry and its nice to have some colorfull people instead of boring stuffed shirts you will have people say do you remember when your mothers cousins showed up hehe but you are right they probably won't show but you would have done the right thing and feel better just have fun at YOUR WEDDING babe cheers |
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fanaticsep
Joined: 26 Nov 2007
Posts: 27
Location: USA
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:32 pm Post subject: To invite or not to invite? |
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| If you don't want to you certainly don't have to. Especially if your mother doesn't want to so no one close to you will get angry. |
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FallingUpwardsemoness
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:36 pm Post subject: To invite or not to invite? |
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| My choice would be to not invite them. |
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FallingUpwardsemoness
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:40 pm Post subject: To invite or not to invite? |
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| It seems like you're not too close to them anyway, so any bad blood between you won't have any affect on you whatsoever. I would just not invite them, instead of inviting them and then worrying about if they're coming or not, and if they do, will they act up or not. You have plenty of other stuff to stress about to be spending time stressing over family members you're not close to anyway. So just disregard them, and continue on your planning. |
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falcon
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:44 pm Post subject: To invite or not to invite? |
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| if they are still mad about you not coming to theirs the way to get that point across would be to not come to yours ( if you would be so lucky)the only other way to handle it is to send them an announcement after the wedding. is their mom invited? if she isnt send her an announcement too. if they ask you why you only sent them an announcement and not a regular invitation you can say something along the lines of ' i thought it was the more polite thing to do because i didnt want to burden you with the hassle of feeling you had to come all the way to fla to my wedding knowing how expensive that is, and i just wanted to take that hassle away for you and i did the same thing with my other out of state people i wanted to announce my wedding to." by saying this you have used politeness and concern for their expenses as your excuse and come off as if you care very much for them and just wanted to help them.......hope that helps a bit. |
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famimina
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
Posts: 35
Location: Netherlands Antilles
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:49 pm Post subject: To invite or not to invite? |
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uuummmm... i would not invite them ur mom doesnt like them u dont really like them and i dont think they much care if u invite them or not.  p.s. SAY NO TO DRUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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FarajS
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:53 pm Post subject: To invite or not to invite? |
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| Leave them off the guest list. You don't want them at your wedding. Is it at all possible they might not even know it's on if no one talks to them? If so, you're in luck. If they ask why they weren't invited, just state their behaviour as reason enough. You really don't want them ruining your wedding. |
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