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oyvey0064
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 Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:23 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| It sounds like she is completely jealous and vindictive. If she's not happy then no one can be happy. I know it's hard, but do your best to ignore her and everything she says. As for her telling you that you don't deserve a getaway she needs to just butt the hell out. This year will be our tenth anniversary also and up until last year we never took our kids on vacation. It wasn't a vacation if I had to take my kids. You need time alone with your husband, you sister in law needs to mind her own business.Best of luck. |
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JuliaGulia2820
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:27 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| Well I really wouldn't worry about it too much since everyone else is fine with it. And your sister in law isn't getting in the way or your relationship with your husand since he's tired of her too. Don't worry about it or let it stress you out. Obviously since she's emailing your brother being mean about it, they all know she's nutz. Just plan your renewal vows and honeymoon and don't even let another thought of that woman cross your mind!have a good time and relax away from the kids,Oh, just make sure you get your brother and his wife a really nice suvenier since they are so kind as to watch the kids! |
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Challenge3490
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:31 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| You need to get the support of the family to put her in her place! This is YOUR day! |
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LG7612
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:35 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| Geez she sounds spoiled and down right self centered. Let it be.. you and your hubby have a good time with your renewals and take that honeymoon! If you dont want to invite her, then dont, surround your selves with people that treat you both well! |
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cunnitr
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:40 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| OMG! this sounds like my SIL, wedding day drama and all! I feel for you. Basically, I wouldn't approach her at all. I mean, she isn't affecting your plans, you don't need her to babysit. In the end, she isn't coming because she isn't invited. So, who cares? Let her talk and be ignorant. If you open this up with her trust me you'll take it 10 years back to your wedding day because even though you say you're over it it still *isses you off to think about it! So, just ignore your SIL, go on your renewal trip, and take plenty of pictures to bring back and show her what a great time you had even though she thought she could ruin it. Believe me, I can guess that she's miserable and is some how jealous of you and tries to ruin the good things that are happening in your life. Good Luck. |
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bbbarra
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:44 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| When I got married I had a "friend" who insisted to know where we were going on our honeymoon.... I already knew she wanted to mess with our room and show up at restaurants etc. because she did this to another friend of mine. So after dodging the question numerous times I finally broke down and told her we were going to San Francisco and staying near the fisherman's wharf. I even mentioned a specific dinner show theater we were going to. She ended up driving up there , 8 hour drive, getting a room and buying the tickets to the show only to NOT find us. We honeymooned in San Diego!!! I was a good actor!!! :)It worked for us and she learned a valuable lesson. She still talks about the one I pulled over on her and it's been 24 years ago!best wishes.................... |
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LASANDUNGUERA
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:48 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| sorry to read bout your s-i-l.she's jealous. it's your 10th anniversary, forget that bitter witch.it's only one person against the whole family.just go, and enjoy your trip..have a great time and don't listen to her.she's always gona b your s-i-l... She's never going to change so just enjoy your honey moon..and ignore hercongrats on your anniversary!!!! |
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CindyLu9789
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:52 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| Stop paying this woman any attention. She is jealous and would like to destroy your happiness. Tell her it is none of her business what you have planned. A honeymoon, first or second is NOT a family affair it is a private thing between a husband and wife. So what if she cannot understand. She understands OK but she is determined to ruin things. She can't if you don't let her. Do not tell her your plans, don't tell anyone just to be certain she does not find out. Ignore her outbursts and forget about her opinions. Remember just tune her out or tell her to leave your home. Trust me she will be offended but she will either change her ways or she will just continue on as if nothing had happened. You don't need this negativity in your life so do not allow it in. Cut contact with her and ignore her when you must be in the same room with her. Do not respond to her bait and go on with your happy life. Know that when you are happy it is the best way to stick it to her and if you waste one moment being worried or upset over anything she says or does they you are giving her a victory and exactly what she wants. You go ahead and be happy and do not allow her to stop you. If you don't, she can't. |
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D_1022
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:56 am Post subject: How would you feel if your sister in law did this? |
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| Maybe start refering to it as your 2nd honeymoon or something that comes with the idea that it is just the 2 of you. I will say that when I hear the term "renewal of vows" I think of something that includes family.But the bottom line is that it isn't any of her business. You deserve to have some time to yourselves. Just let your husband take the heat from his sister. When she brings it up to you, just say, "Well, (insert you husband's name here) wants us take a trip with just the two of us." Then let her talk to him about it and just don't worry about it anymore. |
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