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GooFBabe
Joined: 05 May 2007
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Location: Belgia
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 Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:16 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| He is a friend, we spend a lot of time together, going out for dinner, movies, study together etc. In the early days there was a moment of chemistry, but he didn't want me as a girlfriend. I was disappointed, but ok with it.Thing is, I get mixed messages. Its as if we are dating but without any of the perks, just occasional kiss on cheek etc.So last night, he asked if I would model for this 'arty' pictures. I said No.Do you think this crosses the friend boundary, what is with this guy? Should I even be friends with him as on some level I am attracted to him, but I feel regected a lot in not being good enough to be his girlfriend.Am I right for being confused?Girls, what would you do? Men, do you understand his thinking? |
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Google_dor
Joined: 17 Jan 2008
Posts: 22
Location: United Arab Emirates
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:21 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| he just wants to see you naked |
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Google_dor
Joined: 17 Jan 2008
Posts: 22
Location: United Arab Emirates
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:27 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| maybe h starting to notice you as a woman..ithink he wants you |
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GoorceOceaddy
Joined: 15 Nov 2007
Posts: 14
Location: Italy
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:32 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| he did overstep the bounds of freindship. sounds like he wants the percs of a relationship without the commitment. his next move would have been to make a move on your while you were "posing" for his "art" work. he is a looser and a pervert. move on. |
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GoorceOceaddy
Joined: 15 Nov 2007
Posts: 14
Location: Italy
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:37 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| he might not mean it in a creepy way but i wouldnt do it. he needs to get someone hes not emotionally envolved with |
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GoorceOceaddy
Joined: 15 Nov 2007
Posts: 14
Location: Italy
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:43 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| His thinking would depend on whether he's a keen photographer or just wants to see you naked body with no commitment. |
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Goonustinbv
Joined: 22 Aug 2007
Posts: 11
Location: USA
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:48 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| well it depends on what his pictures look like.agains what these other perverted guys say, a naked body can be viewed as something other than sexyou just have to view his art and see if it's really art or more on the 'playboy' side of things.If he just wanted to see you naked then yes.but maybe you shouldn't be so full of yourself. |
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GOOnahhauze
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 5
Location: USA
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:53 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| I wouldn't dare ask this of a friend. If I may quote a previous answerer: "damn, he's got guts." Still if he really is just a friend with friendly intentions, he'll understand if you say you don't want to. |
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Goonustinbv
Joined: 22 Aug 2007
Posts: 11
Location: USA
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:59 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| Quit him. |
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GoorceOceaddy
Joined: 15 Nov 2007
Posts: 14
Location: Italy
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:04 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| A "friend" won't ask you to do such things..!! |
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Goonustinbv
Joined: 22 Aug 2007
Posts: 11
Location: USA
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:09 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| I'd say no just for the sheer akwardness it could have on your friendship.He's probably just one of those boys who never really knows what he wants. If the friendship was worth it, I'd stick around. If you think it's affecting your abilitly to have relationships with other people, I'd leave.Good luck! |
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Goonustinbv
Joined: 22 Aug 2007
Posts: 11
Location: USA
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:15 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| He's a pig, don't do it.You never know where those pictures will end up, really.Not a good idea, even if he is a good friend. |
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goonern014
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 17
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:20 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| dont get mad at him. it would have taken a lot of courage to ask u that. and if he's a really good photographer then maybe he just asked u cause he wants pictures like that and ur he's friend. |
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goonern014
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 17
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:25 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| Heyy well Id say that kinda over steps the friend ship line.. Also he isnt worth ur time |
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goonern014
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:31 pm Post subject: Male friend asked me to pose naked for his photography. Does |
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| Dont do it, the time was right once, not now. |
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