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Groom2Be
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 Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 8:12 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| 4 years?... sounds committed to me.... marriage is just something that makes breaking up a lot more difficult... obviously someone told him how difficult marriage is. |
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Groom2Be0827
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 8:30 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| Both of you are still young. Enjoy life, go do whatever it is you want to do in this world before you tie down and commit to marriage. It's a huge step and the guy is only 23! He's not ready for this and I can't say I blame him. He's thinking smart. It's probably nothing against you at all. |
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Groom2Be0306
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 8:49 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| you need to asky our self what you want . if he wasnt willing tto offer you any more than he is now would you stay? you need to take him on a walk outdoors & tell him what you want ( your walking side by side , dont make him look you in the eye, this will put him on the spot) if you want to get married ask him. if he says no & you dont want it any other way you need to move. he may realize he dosent want to be with out you & ask you to marry him. he may not, then you need to move on. |
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GRONMORMON
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:07 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| No offense, but you two are babies, and in case you hadn't noticed, most musicians don't make enough to support a family. Time to get real here. |
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GRONMORMON
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:26 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| i know you don t want to hear "your too young" but you are, enjoy each other and life, let everything play out the way it should, you don't really want to push someone into something they are not ready for, slow down ! it's not a race, and trust me , if it's meant to be it will be. |
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Groom2Be
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:44 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| Time to move on, hard as it may seem the man is still a boy at heart. and doesn't want to settle down, so don't make him. this is your decision and its time to let go and spread your wings. if he realizes that he's losing his true love he may make a move but don't take a "I'll think about it". Let him know that your not forcing him to make a decision but that you've come to a decision and its time to move on because you want a future with some who want to commit to you. |
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