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iloveweddings4549
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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 Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 7:50 am Post subject: problem with mother in law? |
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| wel i have passed just 10 months of my marriage,initially she tried direct tricks which didnt work,she demanded alot in my wedding by covering that this is our family tradition,she saled the jewellery of mine which she gifted to me by saying that u didnt like thatswhy i thought i should buy another one(another one was already purchased and my hubby gifted me that on first night)she took all the money which was collected in my wedding.after this i started asking,she became bad in every body's eyes,now she started playing games,i am not staying with her,i am 5 months pregnant,during initial time of my pregnancy she didnt visit my place to help me,she had excuse used to give my hubby "your wife doesnt treat me good thatswhy i dnt visit there",slowly and slowly she became good in front of my hubby's eyes,she used to weep and emotionally she tied my hubby,whenever now she would be wrong even then my hubby shouted on me,i was totally shattered,now she came and again demanding,what to do ??she came to my place and did lots of work in 2-3 days,my hubby started thinking that her mother is right as she is helping me so much,even she pretends that she loves me alot,but many times she says wrong about me in front of my parents...my prob is i am straightforward,i dnt expect any thing from her,now she is demanding clothes of family mambers by saying that this is our tradition in 7th month of ur pregnancy,well thats not problem for my parents,but how long we will put into her empty well,my parents has fulfilled all their needs,why she asks by covering that this is our tradition...my hubby doesnt say or listen anything for her parents...we have love marriage i am not deficient any where,what to do with such a lady??? |
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Jordernelable
Joined: 21 Dec 2007
Posts: 9
Location: Burma
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 10:58 am Post subject: problem with mother in law? |
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| Well, is it your house? Cause if it's your house, tell her to get the hell out. If she's playin mind games, tell your hubby. Over and over again till it's beat into his head and if he leaves you while your 5 months pregnant then you're better off alone. Tell her to her face that you know her mind games and she should stop it and if she doesn't, kick her out. If it's her house, tell her exactly what you think of her behavior and leave and take your hubby with you. Trust me, not all parents are good people. My "father-in-law" is the devil incarnate and his whole family knows he is too. |
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Haumumpinue
Joined: 25 Jan 2008
Posts: 3
Location: AD
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:06 pm Post subject: problem with mother in law? |
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| Your marriage, your house, your traditions. Logically write down the things that are upsetting you, question if they're really that annoying, if they are then with your husband set up your boundaries, and state them to your mother in law.His number one priority should be you, not his mother. |
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hitchnj1001
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 5:14 pm Post subject: problem with mother in law? |
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| she's a little nuts, isn't she?you'd do well setting some personal boundaries in your life... or else she will continue to issue control over you, and you may feel like a door mat forever. Personal boundaries are all about self-preservation... you can find out about personal boundaries by doing a yahoo search.take care. |
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Joe_Tator
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 8:22 pm Post subject: problem with mother in law? |
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| its simple//// get transferred and go to far off place if u want to avoid such people/// inquire from relatives whether taking clothes i necessary or not according to tradition,.,,,even i have same problem with my in law.. though she is well to do ...and i am a normal family...i dont have my dad ....she demands indirectly......all in laws are money bitches..they are selling thier sons... |
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jlol
Joined: 12 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 11:30 pm Post subject: problem with mother in law? |
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| firstly...dont concentrate on her...and dont remind u r husband bout her and her deeds....continuosly talk to u r husband about u and u r baby and say how u want u r family to b and soo on...if u continuosly nag on her...then u r husband tends to support her let u r mil nag on u...things will turn other side...... |
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Jadore
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 2:37 am Post subject: problem with mother in law? |
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| A healthy atmosphere is expected in the house. Try to do the needful to achieve that. |
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