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GreenGuuyh
Joined: 02 Nov 2007
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Location: Fioricet
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 Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 10:58 am Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| OK, I'm almost 20 & I've been doing this for about 5 years now. I have a journal that I have been writing love letters in for my future husband, I was inspired when I went to a youth conference at my church & the woman talking told us about how she wrote love letters to her husband before she married him & on her wedding night, she gave him the journal.Mind you, I don't write in it every single day but I do write in it enough. It's a small journal with a white rose that says "Love" on it & I've enclosed my deepest thoughts, etc. about my hope for a future with him. Because of this, I am almost finished with my journal (I've had it for 5 yrs now). Before, I used to think it was a cheesy/immature idea before I started actually doing it. I dont' want to make it a public affair to anyone & I don't tell very many people (only people that know are my mom & a close friend). I guess I just wanted to ask what are your thoughts on this?Peter Gibbons: Why do you think I am creating big shoes for my husband to fill? My journal is not a journal of expectations of him. It is just me telling him that I am praying for him, his safety & I am willing to work hard to make our future marriage last. I am confused. |
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josephknapp
Joined: 03 Jan 2008
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Location: Kosta Rika
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 12:51 pm Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| i think that is so adorable and once you actually get married, you and your husband can begin a journal of love letters made for each other. |
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Isa
Joined: 31 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 2:44 pm Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| great idea!!! i will definitely share this with my daughters. i think it is an excellent idea. |
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hitchnj3524
Joined: 03 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 4:36 pm Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| I don't think that it's cheesy or immature. However, I do think you are creating very big shoes for your future husband to fill. |
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Jasinrerskuj
Joined: 29 Oct 2007
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Location: Oustralia
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 6:29 pm Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| .....nooo of course not!...its your thoughts and feelings its not cheesy at all.....in fact I have one of my own too!!...ive showed it to everyone...and no one thinks its imature or anything....in fact they like reading it!!...:] |
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JackyLucky
Joined: 10 Aug 2007
Posts: 7
Location: USA
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 8:22 pm Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| Is this for a current boyfriend or for some random person you haven't met yet? That's what's confusing me. If you're not even 20 yet and you've been doing this for 5 yrs then you were 14 yrs old when you started. That's a little strange. Have you been in this relationship since you were 14? It's a cute idea though if you actually are in a relationship & it's intended for a person you're with. If they're love letters to a person you don't know yet, then I would say you have some issues. |
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Intouch
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 10:14 pm Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| No it is not immature or cheesy at all, in fact it a great idea to show your future husband how much you loved him. To tell you the truth, I did the same thing to my husband. |
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JaguarWoman
Joined: 16 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 12:07 am Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| I think it is super that you are doing it. Who knows, may be you can use those letters for your novel too one day. I wish i could be that creative |
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Honeybee1500
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 2:00 am Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| wish i did that! |
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graemeb
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 3:52 am Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| I have heard of this before and I think it's really neat, very interesting, and I don't think that it's creating expectations of your future husband at all. I think it's great that even though you may not have met yet, that your thinking about him. |
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hokilop
Joined: 16 Oct 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 5:45 am Post subject: Do you think a journal of love letters is cheesy/immature? |
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| My wife did something similar to that. I even got to read it on our first year anniversary. It was nice. I liked it. |
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