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PippiVonTrapp
Joined: 20 Jan 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 3:53 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| he says he's not ready for a relationship yet....but yet he takes me out for dinner and out to a wedding party for his friends ask me to slow dance, grabs my hand to hold it,ask me to come cuddle with him when watching a movie, puts his arms around me and rubs my arm with his finger tips we were talking crap about each other in the 2nd person view and he said yeah thats why those two are perfect for each other and they get along so well. we lay in his bed and listen to music and cuddle and when i have to go he doesn't want me to leave....is he scard of me.. o yeah we were going to have sex and he stops just before and told me he couldn't do it because its not like that with me. but we did do if a few weeks after that. i think he is perfect for me and i want to be his everything. by the way we hooked up a few years back and he wanted to move so i let him go and he told me the day i told him that he was going to take me out and tell me he was going to stay and he fell hard for me. |
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msblack23
Joined: 24 Jan 2008 Posts: 4
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:41 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| he so loves u but if he has commitment issues then give him time |
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MikeMorganos
Joined: 11 Jan 2007 Posts: 1
Location: Turkey
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:29 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| He loves you but like he said he isn't ready for relationship..give him time. |
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MommyToBee
Joined: 19 Jan 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:17 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| uhh wtf else is it? ya likes you! |
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MissButterfly1710
Joined: 12 Feb 2008 Posts: 10
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:05 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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he likes you read my blog it might help http://world-love.0yoo.com |
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MsSuzEHomeBAKER
Joined: 24 Jan 2008 Posts: 5
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:53 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| he deffinatly loves/ likes you. i have a guy doing almost exactly that to me. except we havnt had sex, and we've never been in a relationship. keep your same relationship for now, give it a little more time, make sure he knows how you feel, and good luck! |
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pixieeye
Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Posts: 6
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:41 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| he's playing you. sorry. that's how guys do it. commitment phobe? yeah, until you actually believe that then he knows your not going to pressure him, you'll sleep together on a regular basis b/c you like him so much, you'll give him "time" that he needs, and he can still go out and do his own thing. it's so obvious. |
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Obortert
Joined: 27 Apr 2007 Posts: 3
Location: Best
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:29 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| if you dont like how this is going, just move on |
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NannersandDaniel
Joined: 05 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:17 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| Girl, that man is mad about you.give him some time, andbe a good girl and wiatjust a bit.Good Luck!!!---sam |
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outforsoftball
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:05 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| Maybe he is afraid to settle down yet,does he ask for time or do you think it is something that will last?Just let what happens happen, I guess.I wish I could help, I have commitment issues too. I get too worried to invest my heart into one person, then what if something happens? Just remember that your friendship is the most important part. |
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Moiciorleve
Joined: 14 Nov 2007 Posts: 2
Location: Nigeria
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:53 pm Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| It sounds like he's almost ready to commit... but a little too leery right now. It sounds as if he really cares for you, so just be patient with him...Give him time and I think you'll find that he was worth the wait. |
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PIX-ED
Joined: 22 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 12:41 am Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| well i think he does like you...but is afraid of rejection and maybe e stopped at the first time because he wanted it to be special...or wanted to feeel as if both of you were ready...but just give him some time or come flat out and ask him.. |
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NDfan7958
Joined: 15 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 1:29 am Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| This guy has another girl. At least it seems as though his actions are because of that. He likes you, but there is this other girl who loves him, so its like a big triangle. Stop slow dancing with him, stop cuddling with him, and for pete's sake, STOP HAVING SEX. When a guy says he's not read the first time, and then does what he initially stated he wasn't ready for just a few weeks later, that means he's still not ready. He just wants to make you and himself happy. This isn't happy news, and yes he likes you, but either he wants to keep you as his little secret(not good!) or he's seeing someone else(also not good!). So back off. Let him get his stuff straight, and when he's ready, you'll be the first to know. Isn't that kind of funny? When someone that you love is ready to get serious, you're always the first to know, but when they're not it seems as if you're the last. Because you're too wrapped in to think straight. You can't keep doing this. You have to keep some dignity. |
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mymnedume
Joined: 09 Feb 2008 Posts: 1
Location: New Zealand
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Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 2:17 am Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| i know he is lie so that u dont try to go near him, but if u luv him from true heart then dont worry, just go for it.he likes u but i think he might have some problem in his family for having gf & thats y he do that.&many peaple have such problem in their family.think yourself that do he has that kind of problem, if not then he dont like u as gf but as friend |
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MikeT
Joined: 27 Dec 2007 Posts: 4
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Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 3:05 am Post subject: does he like me please help need out side view? |
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| What do you want? He sounds like a normal guy, commitment scares them even when it is what they really want. He wants things to stay just the way they are, and still have an out if you get strange.I am not saying you're or will be strange. this is just a guy thing, So many people I have known have actually had to push the guy into the whole commitment thing. I think the expression was, "SH--, or get off the pot!Well not everybody does that either, I know people that have been together for their whole lives and never did get married, or make a public commitment. The whole thing boils down to, "what do you want"? |
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