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JohnTruthTeller
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 Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 4:17 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| My boyfriend of a year now ,asked me to a wedding .The day of the wedding he blew me off ?!When asked what was up with that he said "taking a girlfriend to a wedding?Scarey! the question is ,what is so scarey about that?(not like i wanted to go catch the flowers or expect him to pop the question!) |
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JoeMama
Joined: 12 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 5:13 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| ehh don't worry too muchsome guys who FEAR commitment can go through thiss |
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johnsonjunior
Joined: 27 Jan 2008
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 6:09 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| Sounds like you need to find another boyfriend. This guy has feet of clay and spine of yellow.Having been dating for a year, then taking you to a wedding probably had the feel of giving you the "wrong idea", so he took a newer girlfriend. |
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Jordernelable
Joined: 21 Dec 2007
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Location: Burma
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 7:05 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| He is assuming that you are going to get wedding fever, want to get married, and try to pressure him into it. Pretty much any guy will think this way, don't read too much into it. Just know that guys know that girls are emotional at weddings and they aren't always well prepared for the ramifications of what happens afterwards. |
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Jody
Joined: 21 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 8:01 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| That must have been what he thought. Maybe he thought taking you would make you start thinking of marriage, and it probably scared him because he must not be ready for that kind of commitment or to even be able to think about it!! |
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just_jd
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 8:58 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| He is just being a typical guy. He probably doesn't want you to get any ideas. My boyfriend used to cringe every time I mentioned marriage... three years later, we're happily thinking about where to have our wedding. Some guys are really creeped out by marriage though. Tell him you aren't expecting anything from him. Also, his family may think you guys are REALLY serious, and that might frighten him. |
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Ken6573
Joined: 09 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 9:54 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| Humans are body, soul, and spirit. The "body" part is the animal part. The animal part of humans is like any primate. Eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap. Men want to distribute their sperm as much as possible to improve their chances or replicating their genome. They can be quite selfish that way. Women want to find a mate worthy of their eggs and have him commit to taking care of them and, especially, their offspring. That's why women want commitment and men don't.What you want is a man who's body is under the control of his soul, and who's soul is under the control of his spirit. The more spiritual a man is, the less like an animal he is. Without our spirit and soul, we would be like the great apes of the jungle. The big silver back male would beat the crap out of all the other males for the privilege of mating with all the females. If any of the females didn't like it, he'd beat the crap out of them too. Of course, maybe that's what you want. |
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kelly
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 10:50 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| YES US MEN SHOW FEAR WITH ANGER AS DID I WITH MY WIFE WHEN WE WANT TO OPEN UP WE ISOLATE OURSELVES WHEN WE WANT TO SAY SWEET NOTHINGS WE RAMAIN MUM I LEARNED THE HARD WAY AND HAVE UNDERGONE RECENT CHANGES FOR THE BETTER FOR MY WIFE MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT I AM UNDER THAT CATAGORY OF MEN HO EVEN WHILE MARRIED 4 YRS HAVE HAD A HARD TIME OPENING UP BASICLLY I BET HE WAS STANDING YOU UP BECAUSE HE HAS THOUGHTS OF MARRIAGE WITH YOU OR HE IS SO AFRAID TO GET HURT BELEIVE IT OR NOT @SSHOLES LIKE ME EVEN HAVE FEELINGS IVE LEARNED WHAT I ANSWERED THE HARD WAY GOOD LUCK TO YOU |
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just_my_02c_worth
Joined: 18 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 11:46 pm Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| He might not want people pressuring him into getting married soon. Maybe people were telling him things that made him feel pressured so he didn't want to deal with that at the wedding. |
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JustSo
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 12:42 am Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| I'm not a guy by any means but I think maybe bringing his girlfriend to a wedding with alot of friends and family it might have put pressure on him. Kind of like meeting the parents I guess...I would just talk to him about it and ask him why it would have been scarey...If he's that afraid of commitment then maybe you shold move on...to many girls are stuck in a rut with an idiot who has no plans what so ever of getting settleing down or anything close to that! I would say your best bet is to ask him...he's the only one who can give you an honest answer (if he wants to anyway). Good luck |
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jlunchbox0099
Joined: 31 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 1:38 am Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| that is not what I would be worried about, he asked you to go and then blew you off, what kind of boyfriend is that? I would not stand for that kind of childish behavior! |
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Kashini
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 2:34 am Post subject: what is so scarey about this.........................?(guys |
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| And they say we woman are hard to understand. If it were me I would be saying SEE YA. If you have been dating for a year you 2 should be going to all sorts of social occasions together. Sounds like fear of committment to me. I would take this as a sign of your future with him. |
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