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kasb
Joined: 23 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 10:22 pm Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| We have this big project to do, and its due in a couple of days. So she came over to my house yesterday and we ate something and we were having fun. And then she’s like, we better get to work. so i was all like all right. so we got on the computer and we started to argue i guess because of something sososo stupid! I said "Your anger is like a 5 year olds" i know that was wrong, but i thought wed laugh it off, but i donno i guess she took it wrong. She told me where’s you phone? i was all like why? and she said because i want to call my mom. I said why again and she said i just want to go home. Then i said im sorry if i said anything to hurt you really, and she again said, can i have your phone. I kept saying im sorry but we have to get this project done. And she finally said fine and so we started to work on it again. I was trying to be friends with her again but every time i tried shed say does this have anything to do with the project?…..I said no, but i cant focus on the project with someone mad at me. She ignored me. So she said if i don’t get an a on this project my parents will beat me. I said whoa that’s weird. and she said so my parents are weird now? i said no... but that’s a weird rule. Then she started to like set me up.. like try and say something bad to get back at me or something. I told her flat out.. Do you think im stupid or something cause i can tell what your trying to do.. finally i gave her the phone and said call your mom. and she did but no one answered. so i said.... what’s your parents phone number? She said that no one is ganna answer so i said what’s your parents cell... she said its long distance. so i was like just tell me it, its for the best. And then she did and they picked up and said they’d be her to pick her up in a few minutes. so i packed up our stuff and said go get your stuff. she said okay. and i sat on the couch while my dad was in the living room....She was walking down the stairs and then she turned around and said thanks for having me! i said bye. and she started to walk down the driveway. She was waiting at the end for like 5 minutes and her parents never came. My dad said I’m going down there to talk to her. my dad came back up and said what’s her parents phone number? i said why? and he said I’ve been waiting down there for 20 minutes and she wont tell me anything! I said i donno what it is and then he said fine and he walked back down the driveway and then finally her parents came. my mom and dad told me all they said is that they will try to talk to her and see what’s going on. I also didn’t go to school today to avoid a confrontation. i know thats bad but what should i do? i mean it looks like were never ganna be friends again?!?! |
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8451
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 1
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 12:10 am Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| She got so mad over that? Ask her whats real bugging her. |
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nanilicker
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 1
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 1:58 am Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| just fight and get it over with. once you two do this youll be like what are we fighting about lol if not i dnt think youll be friends much longer |
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propro
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 12
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 3:46 am Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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say sorry. . .tell her that u meant it as a joke =]sorry is the only thing u can say to be friends again 0 |
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ericaaboo
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 5
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 5:34 am Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| just talk to her about it. let her know shes really your bestfriend. i've gotten into tons of fights! even fist fights. but it all lightens up if you just talk about it. if shes really your bestfriend she'll understand. |
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rapnroc
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 3
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 7:22 am Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| u guys will be friend again u and her just have to mature and realize what u guys fought over was petty...and there are worse things happening in the world besides whatever u guys are fighting about..just have a meeting with her without the project situation and talk out ur feelings..and apologize the both of u...and u guys really need to finish that project..GOOD LUCK |
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homerungimp
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 1
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 9:10 am Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| i think that there may be something else bugging your Friend. give her a day or two and then talk to her. tell her that you didint mean to offend her. I think her parent's sound a little fishy. i would be willing to bet that your Friend needs you, i think that there is something going on with her................. |
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schmemily
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 10:58 am Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| She is WAY immature.I dealt with someone like this last year, ugh!It was so annoying.She obviously wants attention, BUT DONT GIVE IT TO HER!Continue working on the proj, and pretend like nothing happened.She will come around when she sees that her b*tchy acts wont be rewarded.Tell her you can't have that goinng on, and if she is mad, to talk it out like ADULTS. Say that if she does it again, you dont need to have someone like that harshing your mellow, and she will just need to deal on her own. It is NOT your responsibility.BEST OF LUCK, HUN! |
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LiSA4417
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 12:46 pm Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| you should talk to her parents first and see what was bugging her and at school wait to see if she talks to you or says hi. if she doesnt that means shes mad at you and she proboalbly doesnt wanna talk to you, you shouldnt have to talk to her if she doeant want to. EVERYTHING WILL BE OK! your best friend will get over it eventualy and you guys will be all good again! GOOD LUCK! |
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clueless
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 1
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 2:34 pm Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| there has to be something that's upsetting her more because that is a really stupid reason to get mad. go to school and talk to her about it. if you guys are best friends then you'll make up. |
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DaLiA
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 4:22 pm Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| Try to talk to her and if she dosent want to talk just leave it like that... |
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6505
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 1
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 6:10 pm Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| Sounds like me & my friend..1. Well maybe you was both tierd thats why me and my friend fall out usually.2. I fell out with my friend for 6 weeks & then we laughed one day and made-up.Y'never know. But if i was you i'd hang with your other friends for a while.. She sounds mardy as f#ck ! [No offence] :] Hope it works out, whatever happens xx |
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SchnurrbartPI
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 7:58 pm Post subject: Me and my BEST friend are in a fight? |
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| With best friends like that, who needs enemies? Sounds like she's got the spazzmatazz, i.e. serious problems at home that have nothing to do with you. So don't take it personally. If she doesn't apologize, doesn't accept your apologies, or continues to be rude, insulting or unreasonable, then I suggest you separate from her permanently and find some new friends. I can't believe you didn't go to school just to avoid it. That's not really a good reason to stay home. |
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