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TheWiz
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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 Posted: Tue May 06, 2008 9:38 pm Post subject: Boyfriend is a bad guy? |
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| When I first started dating my bf, he was 17 and i was 19. We would talk on the phone, and he would keep wanting to talk to me for hours every night. He told me he thought i was beautiful and perfect and he LOVED me!! He loved me after knowing me for like a month as friends. Then a few months later he told me he wanted to MARRY ME. Now we've been together for almost a year and live together. I know he loves me, but he acts so rude an arrogant towards me sometimes. He calls me lazy, stupid, and even tells me he wants to break up. Then later he tells me he was just trying to hurt my feelings after i cry for awhile. He takes out his anger on ME. i dont know what to do or say when he does this. It just makes me feel so hurt inside. I know he loves me and cares about me, so thats why i dont understand how he could treat me like this sometimes. |
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toginator
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 4:58 am Post subject: Boyfriend is a bad guy? |
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| He doesn't truly love you if he does that to you. |
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twerieEterospor
Joined: 03 Feb 2008
Posts: 4
Location: Vietnam
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:18 pm Post subject: Boyfriend is a bad guy? |
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| You're in an abusive relationship. It's time to get out. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. There are much better men out there for you. |
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TiaraJ
Joined: 11 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 7:38 pm Post subject: Boyfriend is a bad guy? |
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| That's called emotional abuse. He is wearing you down, so that you will feel both guilty, at fault for everything, and that you need him or cannot do without him/cannot do any better. He is actively making you doubt yourself and your self worth. I wouldn't stick around to see what happens. I would request a change immediately, and leave if you didn't see results. |
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