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Tor
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
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 Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 11:38 am Post subject: he doesnt love me does he? |
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| Married 10 mnths but i feel so alone. My husb doesnt seem to care about anything that is going on in my life or if i am happy or not. I am really upset as i have failed a major exam (am at uni) my course has finished and i do not know what is going to happen as i am employed on the assumption i will pass the course.I didnt tell him on Wed as his football ws on but yestday i told him on the phone but he couldnt talk as at work. He came home but never said anything just went on about the football. Eventually i said "it is only a game". For the rest of the night he just ignored me as usual. he will go in a huff for days now.He never asks me about my life at work etc he seems superficial. He knows im unhappy at work but never asks about it. I feel i get no support. i had to go to hosp for scan but he never asks about the results. I feel he just wants a housekeeper. He says he forgets but he doesnt forget about stuff his adult children say to him. It feels like he doesnt care- does he? |
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unity
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 6
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| Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 3:18 pm Post subject: he doesnt love me does he? |
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| It really doesnt sound good at all, sorry to be brutally honest but he is being very heartless.Stop doing everything for him maybe then he will notice your existence |
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Tinkerbell7473
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 6:58 pm Post subject: he doesnt love me does he? |
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if its this bad after 10 monthes you need to talk seriously, turn off the TV sit facing each other and talk honestly about the state of your marriage, mine was like this but after 5 years, the first few years are supposed to be the happiest, you sound so sad.  |
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wolfgrey04
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 10:38 pm Post subject: he doesnt love me does he? |
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| Omg hun he sounds like a real prick to me...you know you dont deserve a person like this..if he even cared about u he would ask about the most important things ur health!its time to move on..try to talk to him about ur feelings give it another shot but if he continues being so indifferent about everything just start the procedures for a divorce..thats the only solution u will have..there r so many nice ppl and im sure u will find someone who will love you..you still have the whole life ahead u...hope i helped good luck ! |
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TrexpookeSBV
Joined: 14 Jan 2008
Posts: 4
Location: Yemen
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| Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 2:18 am Post subject: he doesnt love me does he? |
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Divorce this a*****! I am so sorry you got in such a loveless marriage You sound like a great girl...and you deserve a man who cares about your life, and your future. Sounds to me like he may be a little jealous, and scared that your doing something with your life and you want need him. Try talking to him, and counseling. If that doesnt work, which im guessing it wont since he seems so self involved..then leave him. Get all your ducks in a row and Leave! He will have to pay child support and alimony. Is he military?? Sounds so much like my husband and all of the other army wives husbands. Good luck doll, I hope you figure out you are worthwhile and can do wayyy better  Think about your children too. What's best for them? Do they need a non=existent father. Yea, he might be there physically...but not emotionally. And that can damage a child's self esteem. |
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TipSketeNikigEBex
Joined: 17 Jan 2008
Posts: 1
Location: US
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| Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 5:58 am Post subject: he doesnt love me does he? |
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| he doesnt care. he isnt ready to be in a marriage. what you need to do is move out or get a divorce because whats gonna happen is yall going to get in a big fight because he wont pay attention to you unless he wants sex or something and you will feel used. the marriage will fall apart and youll be unhappy. if hes making you feel that way and acts like he doesnt care then he really doesnt and you shouldnt be married to someone that doesnt care about you. |
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UtromRano
Joined: 11 Dec 2007
Posts: 12
Location: US
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| Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 9:38 am Post subject: he doesnt love me does he? |
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| HE DOESN'T CARE FOR YOU OR YOUR FEELINGS. SO NEED TO TELL HIM YOU CAN'T LIVE LIKE THIS NO MORE. BECAUSE A MARRIAGE ISN'T SUPPOSED TO BE LIKE THAT. YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO TALK TO YOUR OTHER HALF EVEN THOUGH HE MAD OR NOT. IT'S TAKES TWO IN MARRIAGE NOT JUST ONE PERSON DOING EVERYTHING. IT'S NOT WORKING IT'S TIME TO HANG IT UP. |
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