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QUIEROERROW
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Location: Panama
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 Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 7:08 pm Post subject: Friend engaged- don't want her to feel obligated to make me |
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| One of my best friends from young adulthood, who was one of my bridesmaids a year and a half ago in my wedding, just got engaged.I moved across the country after my wedding and haven't seen her since, although we occasionally talk on the phone (like, a few times).I still love my friend, but it seems we've grown apart with time and distance and I don't want her to feel obligated to put me in her wedding party just b/c she was in mine.Do I say anything? What should I say?I mean, I DON'T want to be a bridesmaid really, b/c it wouldn't exactly make sense. We're not really best friends anymore... |
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OZZIEGAL8910
Joined: 28 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 10:04 pm Post subject: Friend engaged- don't want her to feel obligated to make me |
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| Don't say anything. Wait and see if she asks you herself. If you mention it now and she wasn't planning on asking you then she may feel that you are indirectly hinting towards it and feel obligated because of that. |
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redcurleyz
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| Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 1:00 am Post subject: Friend engaged- don't want her to feel obligated to make me |
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| I would not say anything!If she wants you to be apart of the wedding she will let you know! |
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Rinameeriejed
Joined: 21 Oct 2007
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Location: Ireland
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| Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 3:56 am Post subject: Friend engaged- don't want her to feel obligated to make me |
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| Say nothing, you may be worrying about this for nothing. |
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PrivateEye
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 6:52 am Post subject: Friend engaged- don't want her to feel obligated to make me |
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| Don't say a thing. She may have other people in mind, like her sisters. |
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noitallYorkshireEnglandUK
Joined: 17 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:48 am Post subject: Friend engaged- don't want her to feel obligated to make me |
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| Just don't say anything. If she wants you in her wedding, she'll tell you. If not, you are in the clear. |
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