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rightio

Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 3

Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 11:29 am Post subject: how should i handle a girl that says she wants to hang out b

heres the quick story:ive known his girl for 4-5 yrs. met in a college class i '03... anyway... we partied together and hung out through the yrs. we both graduated. since the first of the yr. id always see her out by the bars. wed stop talk to each other when we ran into each other. she tell me that we need to get together & get lunch & hang out more.so 3 weeks ago she invites me to an 80s party of one of her friends. i go late. she & i talk awhile there. when i went to the bathroom she lightly slap my butt & both turned and smile. as we left we she tells me shes been talkin me up to all her friends. we both hugged & as i was getin ready to kiss her on the cheek she kissed me lips..well, i thought i was golden or at the least looked promising. i called her that monday & left a message. and i called he 2 more times after i i got back from my sisters graduation. both times left a message.i saw her out this past thurs& was goin to ignore her but i talked 2 her for a few minutes. she was at the bar we go to a lot. she came up to me whilw i was watchin a game with my friend. she left after she gave me a big kiss on the cheek. i tried to be short with her.i dont know what to do next. one thing i do wonder is she just being nice to me bc im handicap. im handicap but im very independent (hell i go to bars! ect ect) but i get around in an electric scooter bc i cant walk real real long. i can walk tho.im thinkin of ignoring her next time i see her and/or tell her im disappointed in her and tell her i dont like her fakeness to me and i dont need her pitty!

ramasanna

Joined: 11 Nov 2007
Posts: 5
Location: USA

Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 2:29 am Post subject: how should i handle a girl that says she wants to hang out b

I would try to call her one more time in a few weeks or so. Leave another message hinting that you feel like a stalker but that you just look forward to talking to her again. If she doesn't return the call after that message, she probably isn't too interested. You never know though, she could just be fearful or commitment phobic or something. Seems like she likes you though. Those are very clear signs. Good luck!

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