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Stacy
Joined: 15 Jan 2008
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 Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 9:23 am Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| This guy whom i met online (same race/cast) have been so nice/caring/understanding.I could sense the genuine-ness,sincerity in his conversations.We met 3 years ago but only started being in touch since the end of last year.We chat(+webcam)/talk the phone/email/sms.We are YET to know more about each other.All i want is a platonic r'ship vice versa(He said that he'll only commit once he's ready coz he dont wanna be in one just for the 'sake' in case if the girl likes him n if he doesnt,he will feel guilty about it)Bottom line:1)He messaged me in a social site saying that he miss talking to me 2)I replied that i missed talking to him too.Hope to see him online msn soon so we can talk3)BUT,he DELETED the post!Why?Any idea?4)I called him few days ago(after 1 wk) coz i wanted to ask him about IT,but had no chance coz he was on the way to attend his cousin's wedding5)Havent heard from him ever since either - he didnt take initiative to either call bk or tell me when to call |
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svetomalll
Joined: 16 Jun 2008
Posts: 41
Location: Germany
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 12:11 pm Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| That means the honeymoon stage is over...all relationships have them. |
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sublime_savvy
Joined: 09 Apr 2008
Posts: 2
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 2:59 pm Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| if he deleted your post on the site then he probably doesnt want someone seeing it. he might have a girlfriend now. |
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Tony426
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
Posts: 4
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 5:47 pm Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| Personally you don't really know much about him to start with.. you don't want to seem desparate do you?? MOve on if it was meant to be, then it will happen if not then you'll at least no that right? goodluck |
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shortmastergarcia
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 8:35 pm Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| Move on. He has lost interest in you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. |
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TramPsikikksivott
Joined: 29 Oct 2007
Posts: 4
Location: hudf
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:23 pm Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| HIS TRUE COLORS ARE SHOWING SO YOU CAN LIVE WITH IT OR YOU CAN LEAVE AND GO FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY |
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Spanky
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
Posts: 11
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| Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 2:11 am Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| Society needs attention and going on line feels good to know someone cares, however once one knows your weakness they sometimes forget and get bored, if one has someone on the side going on line is a fun and exciting moment, so by now you may feel you must move on. |
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theMrs
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
Posts: 21
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| Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 4:59 am Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| most propably u find these kind of guys in social network.....plz dont believe any one in cyber...i too have a same xperience as u....but itz not fair to trust any one here...just say thank god tat u escaped from tat guy....be happy tat nothin happend lol....hope u find a nice guy but not in cyber lol... |
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steveh
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 8
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| Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 7:47 am Post subject: Initially this guy was so nice/caring to me but as months pa |
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| Those are signs that there maybe someone else. plain and simple. so sweety dont get wrapped up in this. He is not your boyfriend so you cannot take the things that he is doing personally. I've always been told listen to a man.. listen to what he says because he will tell you who he is.He has told you he dont not want to commit for the feelings to be one sided and he doesnt want to lead anyone on because it will make him feel guilty. He is aware that you have something to discuss or that you simply just want to talk but he is making no effort. He seems selfish but does it in a nice way which is what confuses you.He is probably using you for emotional support of genuine conversation that he may not be getting from the other girl in his life. or he may contact you when she is not acting right to fill the void and when she is he doesnt need to speak.When a guy really likes you it will not be this hard to communicate you have what we call red flags so run now before you let this play out and get hurt emotionally just leave him alone he'll come around but you wont have time for the bs |
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