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Sum182sBassist
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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 Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 1:11 am Post subject: Ladies, a question about meeting my girlfriend when she was |
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| My girlfriend was engaged when we met. She struck up a conversation with me and pursued me. She cancelled her wedding that was just weeks away so we could be together. I love her and think very highly of her. I know her previous relationship had issues or she wouldnt be "looking" or whatever you want to call it. Anyway, more concern is, how do I know she wont do the same thing to me? I do have trust issues because of how we met. I feel like I need to discuss this with her but I dont want it to sound like I think she is a slut or bad person. We have a great connection I have never felt with anyone else so I know we have something special but I still wonder if she will go chat some other guy up and do the same thing to me. Do you think I should discuss this concern with her and how should I approach it as to not make her feel like I think she is a bad person or a cheater? By the way, we met not as a hook up, we just started talking and hit it off, so it wanst about sex. |
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taytay
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 5:40 am Post subject: Ladies, a question about meeting my girlfriend when she was |
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| You can't tell the future. I say if she loves you and you love her, forget about how you met and just enjoy the relationship. People who have never cheated one day cheat and people who have cheated in the past may never do it again. Don't worry about something that may or may not happen. Worry about it when it actually becomes an issue. |
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theMrs2931
Joined: 13 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 10:09 am Post subject: Ladies, a question about meeting my girlfriend when she was |
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| I would be concerned too if I were you, but really only time will tell, and you don't say how long you've been together? I think you should talk about it though.. The only way to have a great relationship is by talking and getting everything out in the open ASAP... |
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Symnassuppy
Joined: 08 Apr 2008
Posts: 1
Location: The Gambia
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| Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 2:38 pm Post subject: Ladies, a question about meeting my girlfriend when she was |
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| Every relationship you've ever been in before her ended. You just have to either stay if you love her, or go if you don't. And she will do the same. Just like she left the other guy, cuz he didn't love him anymore. Breakups happen, you can't sit around waiting for it. |
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software
Joined: 13 Mar 2008
Posts: 11
Location: Russia
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| Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 7:07 pm Post subject: Ladies, a question about meeting my girlfriend when she was |
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| Well the guy she was engaged to had a special connection to her to or he wouldn't have proposed and she wouldn't have accepted. Trust will haunt you...marriage is hard work and it doesn't matter because You were the man that took her and you will always worry about that. She proved she doesn't fully comprehend what it means to be committed, otherwise she wouldn't have just ended it with her finance when someone new came along. Good luck with that one! |
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SnumeQueeft
Joined: 28 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
Location: Lebanon
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| Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:35 pm Post subject: Ladies, a question about meeting my girlfriend when she was |
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| Has she ever cheated on you or made you feel like she has? If the answer is NO I wouldnt worry about her past relationship. Focus on YOU and HER and NOW. What she did with someone else has nothing to do with you two. You already know their relationship wasnt the best or lets face it you wouldnt be with her. If you feel like she loves you stop worrying. Dont judge her until she does something to you to make you judge her! |
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