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tolxew
Joined: 07 Dec 2007 Posts: 2
Location: USA
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:35 pm Post subject: Ladies, I have a question about meeting my girlfriend while |
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| My girlfriend was engaged when we met. She struck up a conversation with me and pursued me. She cancelled her wedding that was just weeks away so we could be together. I love her and think very highly of her. I know her previous relationship had issues or she wouldnt be "looking" or whatever you want to call it. Anyway, more concern is, how do I know she wont do the same thing to me? I do have trust issues because of how we met. I feel like I need to discuss this with her but I dont want it to sound like I think she is a slut or bad person. We have a great connection I have never felt with anyone else so I know we have something special but I still wonder if she will go chat some other guy up and do the same thing to me. Do you think I should discuss this concern with her and how should I approach it as to not make her feel like I think she is a bad person or a cheater? By the way, we met not as a hook up, we just started talking and hit it off, so it wanst about sex. |
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Shelby
Joined: 22 Nov 2007 Posts: 5
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Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 4:04 am Post subject: Ladies, I have a question about meeting my girlfriend while |
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| You just have to have trust in your girl that she won't do the same thing to you. Make sure she doesn't get cold feet and leave you for someone else and then later on regret it. Above all, you should talk to her about it and your concerns. |
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someone
Joined: 20 Jan 2008 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 8:33 am Post subject: Ladies, I have a question about meeting my girlfriend while |
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| IF YOU REALLY DO HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP AND CONNECTION YOU THINK YOU DO, THEN SHE WONT BE ANGRY WITH YOUR QUESTIONS... SHE WILL BE HONEST WITH YOU.... |
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SharonF7488
Joined: 14 Mar 2008 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 1:02 pm Post subject: Ladies, I have a question about meeting my girlfriend while |
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| well its good that it wasnt about sex and also i would tell her bout it it isnt right to not have that trust and still love her you have to talk about it because trust is they key to a healthy relationsip. so when you se her next and talk about and it wont sound like any of thoughs things if your open and you also let her talk so that it can be a conversation |
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TraM
Joined: 21 Jan 2008 Posts: 4
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Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 5:31 pm Post subject: Ladies, I have a question about meeting my girlfriend while |
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| In a relationship[ it will only work with trust, honesty, and communication. So Go communicate with her and be honest. Then you will trust her. Bada Bing Bada Boom! AND if u dont trust her U know what u got to do. If it is really that big of a deal to you |
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searchbab
Joined: 01 May 2007 Posts: 16
Location: USA
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Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:59 pm Post subject: Ladies, I have a question about meeting my girlfriend while |
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| you just have to trust her and things will be alrght..she probably had an a***** for a boyfriend...i'll tell you something about my boyfriend.. I love him, and he doesnt reciprocate it back to me properly.. wont let me call his house, Ive been going out for the past 4 years.. did not attend my convocation.. we're in a long distance relationship and he is in no hurry to meet me..for my convocation he sent me a heartless card whcih he picked up last moment with a gift that I wouldnt give even my farthest friends.. no love at all... hes loaded.. but he wont bother with spending any money on me.. its always his bloody friends.. if she had something lke me.. i can totally understand why she broke it off.. give her a chance! sometimes all women need is attention |
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