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_yoju_eckho_
Joined: 30 May 2007
Posts: 39
Location: Boston
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 Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:44 am Post subject: I'm pissed that my boyfriend hasn't proposed? |
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| Be very soft, sweet & tolerent for few months & win over his heart to make him in very good mood. One day, call a religious authoriatarian person & few family friends & perform very simple marriage ceremony at home. A ring is not the basic necessity for that. Actually you're very highly emotional type simple lady. He exploited your strong emotional weakness otherwise, you'd have firmly put condition of marring first before going for sexual relations irrespective of deep love & affection shown by him. Most of the very simple highly emotional girls of very good character below 20 years of age are cheated like you by arousing to nymphomania by their so called their good boyfriends & after pregnancy & childbirth, they make the wife dancing & doing psychophancy. Meanwhile, offer religious procedures regularly & present yourself like a perfect God fearing one. His rigid heart will melt. |
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_yoju_eckho_
Joined: 30 May 2007
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Location: Boston
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:22 am Post subject: I'm pissed that my boyfriend hasn't proposed? |
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| Unfortunately, some guys suffer from a case of cold feet, and in other cases some are just not man enough to step up to bat. If your other half is the type thats not willing to complete the circle in your relationship, Then you need to start laying out some sort of ultimatum. Of course you don't want to rock the boat too much, especially if he is being a good father and provider. But, at some point something has to give. You have to make up your mind on what you're willing to put up with. Is it worth risking the relationship that you already have, or if its not worth the sacrifice. Its a thin line that sucks, maybe some councling will help. The both of you have a lot invested in this relationship, maybe he doesn't see it that way. It's up to you to try to convince him with out giving him the impression that you're nagging him. In any case, Best wishes and good luck! |
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_pistol_tiyo_
Joined: 01 Jun 2007
Posts: 36
Location: London
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 3:00 am Post subject: I'm pissed that my boyfriend hasn't proposed? |
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| why should he buy the cow if the milk is free ?many guys in this position never will propose |
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_pislio_brayo_
Joined: 29 Apr 2007
Posts: 34
Location: Boston
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 3:37 am Post subject: I'm pissed that my boyfriend hasn't proposed? |
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| Don't mention it for about a month. Don't say a thing about marriage or weddings or anything like that...act like you've dropped it.THEN.....Propose to him. I mean get down on one knee, tell him he's a great partner and father, you love him with all your heart and soul, and that you want to spend the rest of your life with him. If he's hesitant because of the reasons you've stated (the ring, wedding, etc.), remind him that just because you're engaged, it doesn't mean you have to get married tomorrow. But at least you'll be engaged, and it's one step closer to marriage. Maybe it would make you feel better (for awhile anyway) to tell people that you're "engaged" with two babies, instead of "not married" with two babies. |
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_pisko_koli_
Joined: 26 Apr 2007
Posts: 50
Location: Johannesburg
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 4:15 am Post subject: I'm pissed that my boyfriend hasn't proposed? |
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| You want him to want to marry you: nagging him about it, breaking into crying fits over it, and threatening to leave him if he doesn't propose immediately will not get you what you want. Move on. If marriage is something that you cannot live without and something that he is not interested in, then you are with the wrong person. The only alternative is to rethink your own position on marriage. If being with him means more than getting married, then you need to change your own opinion. However, it's hard to ignore the pull of marriage, or why else would we be talking about proposals? I think if you already came this far to try to get him to propose, then you are already committed to the idea of marriage. Stick with your beliefs and find someone more interested in a marriage commitment to you.or try this website:http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationships/will-he-ever-marryGood Luck |
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