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_pistol_tiyo_
Joined: 01 Jun 2007
Posts: 36
Location: London
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 Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 4:16 pm Post subject: help out people? |
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| Since my wife are separted right now is it a wise decision to take my wedding ring off my finger. I hope it is hope between us that we could make it again because I want her back and I can't picture myself with out her and she said the same thing. She says she wants to be separted and if she or I find somebody then we could not trip at all. Right now I am working overseas and I have some hype line up but I am not sure if I want to do that right now. I come home in Sept. and I am going on a cruise and my wife might go I am not sure but I want to ask somebody else but I am not sure if my wife wants to go or not. |
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_theli_joeck_
Joined: 03 Jun 2007
Posts: 32
Location: USA
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 5:59 pm Post subject: help out people? |
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| I wouldn't take it off, but that is just me. I'd kinda hope that she would notice you still wearing it and realize that your intentions are true to her and you are hoping for the best. Good Luck! |
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_tolre_pulku_
Joined: 27 Apr 2007
Posts: 40
Location: Stafford
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 7:41 pm Post subject: help out people? |
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| Are you still married? Have you decided to get a divorce? Then wear your ring. |
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{cigarette|cheap cigarett
Joined: 04 Mar 2008
Posts: 7
Location: USA
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:24 pm Post subject: help out people? |
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| Tough questions all around. Sounds like you need to make up your mind what you want to do and who you want to ask on the cruise with you. |
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_pisko_koli_
Joined: 26 Apr 2007
Posts: 50
Location: Johannesburg
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 11:07 pm Post subject: help out people? |
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| Separated does not equate to "over". I'm sure a lot of people will disagree, but as long as you are still married to this person, you should wear the ring. It lets others know your situation which is that you are still married. If somebody is willing to approach you or visa vie, you then have the opportunity to explain EXACTLY the situation you're in. |
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_yoju_eckho_
Joined: 30 May 2007
Posts: 39
Location: Boston
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| Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 12:50 am Post subject: help out people? |
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| It comes down to your personal choice. you stated that you are still married. The band is a symbol of your marriage. Since there is still a marriage....legal or otherwise...is it not fair to youm your spouse, and those around you to keep that symbol present at in view at all times. The symbol in sight lets others know that you are not available. By taking it off is it also not a sign that you are giving up on that marriage? If you want to work it out you must talk to her and let her know how important the marriage is to you. |
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_tolas_asra_
Joined: 08 Jun 2007
Posts: 31
Location: Poland
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| Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 2:33 am Post subject: help out people? |
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| Yes, if there is still hope. Just because you and your wife are on a seperation doesnt mean its OVER.. When you come back from work make sure you tell your wife, your still in love with her. more as much the day you married her.( if you want to be with her) Always keep contact with her as much as possible. Good luck!! |
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_rere_tilio_
Joined: 04 Jun 2007
Posts: 31
Location: Boston
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| Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:16 am Post subject: help out people? |
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| Keep the ring on, I know when I separated from my husband and I took mine off, it hurt him very badly, we are now back together, but he told me, when he saw me with my ring off, he thought that we would never have a chance to get back together, ..... so if that's the message that you want to send..... |
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