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YOuD
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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 Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 7:21 am Post subject: I am at a dead end? |
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| I have hit a dead end. I am always working, working , working, something in my house always breaks, something this, something that, once I had this dream of walking downt he aisle in a beautiful white wedding dress with mr perfect who loved me and hcerished me ad we could have a family together and have those children grow up in a loving home, and I could have a small career as long as I had my family.Well now that I will never have that dream realised, I am going to be single for the rest of my life, since mr perfect walked out on me pregnant, I am going to get pregnant off a one-night stand and have two kids anyways.Don't you think at least I'll have that dream?I mean, why should I care anyway? They can hate me all they like when they grow up, at least they'll have each other to lean on, I'd have to have one child and then sometjhing happens to me and he's all alone... |
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sealink2
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 7:45 am Post subject: I am at a dead end? |
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| buried yourself, and put some flowers on your dead end's grave. |
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seabreezecc
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 8:09 am Post subject: I am at a dead end? |
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| Keep dreaming and believe in yourself. Don't let this world get you down. |
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madmadmaddii
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 8:33 am Post subject: I am at a dead end? |
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| dont give up! things will only get better when things are at an absolute low. |
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Maganda
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 8:57 am Post subject: I am at a dead end? |
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| Don't think about death! I am sure you will find the best solution to your problem. You are so lucky to have your own kids. Love them so that the Mother and Kids Bonding will grow stronger. Try to teach them how to be independent so that when they're alone, they can face the world confidently. Don't give up. Your present situation now is just part of your crisis in life. You will grow stronger from every mistake you are encountering. And before you know it, you will finally realize your dream IN GOD'S TIME.Take care. GOD BLESS THE CHILD. |
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blue_13
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 9:21 am Post subject: I am at a dead end? |
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| First, stop thinking that your life is trash. It's not. Live your life- don't dwell on your problems. There's your children- if your tired of your life, live it for them anyway. They may hate you later, but now, they need you. If you have a dream, pursue it. Don't let your sick boyfriend ruin it. It's your life. You own it. It's up to you to make it better. And please do. You have a family- your kids. You have work- love it. Love your life. Love your work. Love your kids. Love YOURSELF. And do all you can to make life better. Let go of things that hurt you. You're better off without them. Start anew. And don't ever think you're nobody. You are somebody. Your life has meaning. |
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WilliamB
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 9:45 am Post subject: I am at a dead end? |
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| If you are looking for a pity party count me out. I have enough problems for half the people on Yahoo. I suffer from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Agoraphobia, fear of being alone, panic attacks, anxiety attacks, fear of the dark, fear of the light, insomnia, bipolar disorder, short term memory loss, migraine headaches, arthritis, slipped disk in my lower back, and am overweight. I beat Non Hodgkin's Lymphoma. I beat a car crash where the doctors almost gave up on me. I am getting great mental health support and take enough medications a day to feed an elephant. I am being treated for my arthritis and do exercises for my back.If I can live with what problems I have and never think of suicide because that is the cowards way out, you can live with the little mistakes you have made. Or are those 3 kids mistakes at all. So you didn't get the long dress and the cottage with the white picket fence. You got 3 wonderful children. My words to you are life is what you make it, not what happens along the path. So no pity party from me. You have to pick yourself up and jump in with both feet. Its about time that you live, love, and enjoy what you have. |
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