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Frehyton
Joined: 30 Oct 2007
Posts: 15
Location: Italy
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 Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 4:58 pm Post subject: Your honest opinion please!? |
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| Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months now... we dated for a year previous to this (that time we ended because of different things going in our lives) He brings up these following things on several ocassions:We should move in together, we should get married through justice of the peace (make it fast and easy), what would we name our daughter cause if we ever have a son he will be named after me, what type of wedding we could have and what attire he would be wearing. People say he is getting ready to pop the question but then he comes up with im not ready to get married yet, so I am confused. I in no way am pressuring him to this, I dont talk about marriage unless he brings it up (its not that i dont want it, because I do but I dont want him to think I am pressuring him or anything like that) Mind you I am in my mid 20's and he is in his late 20's. In your honest opinion do you think he is thinking about wanting to ask me? Do you think it will come any time soon?Please dont say if you dont know how should we. I am asking for an opinion... pretend that im like one of your friends and this is happening to her, what would you tell her? |
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FreeTpilersz
Joined: 09 Oct 2007
Posts: 19
Location: Tramadol
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 6:10 pm Post subject: Your honest opinion please!? |
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| Him talking about shows the is thinking about it. Wait for him to ask. He will when he is ready. I waited until I was in my 30's to get married for the first time. Of course, just because he asks, and you say yes, doesn't mean you have to right away. You can always have a long engagement. Living together can work or not. In my case it did. We found out the "little" things about each other, and like each other anyways. On this issue, you have to go with your conscience. |
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Fregilloam
Joined: 24 Sep 2007
Posts: 12
Location: World
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 7:22 pm Post subject: Your honest opinion please!? |
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| If you're cool with the way things are at this time. Be patient he'll likely get around to formally asking you. Just be low key like you have been and I hope things work out for you. |
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