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fuzzypiranha
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 5:51 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| go ahead and hand them out unless you think that they'll be offended by you putting them on the "plan b" list |
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Miss
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 12
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 5:54 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| Theres nothing wrong with handing them out. You only have a short time and it would take more time just to get their address from them than giving it to them. I highly doubt anyone will even think twice about it |
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tree0013
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 5:56 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| Please take the time to mail them. It's to tacky to hand them out like it's for a children bithday party. This is your special day! |
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mrsmommashipp
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 2
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 5:58 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| If you are worried about having proper wedding etiquette then yes mail them, but its not a big deal to you then just let them know your situation and hand them there invite. |
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ning-nong
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 17
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:00 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| hand out the local guests and mail the ones you find to far away.... |
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iloveweddings4559
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 7
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:02 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| Hi. Well, you can hand them out. But if it's only a couple weeks away, obviously they will know that they were on the "B" list! And, since that will be getting into the Christmas party season, don't expect that many will be able to attend. |
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ArmyBTB524087323
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:04 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| I don't see anything wrong with handing them out since you see them almost every day! My girls that I see very often told me to just hand them out to them, so that we save time and money on postage. |
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blossom
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 9
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:06 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| perhaps ask the secretary or a pal to hand them out. |
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Skywalker
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 1
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:08 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| Sounds a bit tacky to me. It's like saying " Oh by the way, you weren't on my original list of people to invite but if you have nothing else to do on short notice, would you like to come to my wedding ?" Look you have already blown it. When you plan a wedding, especially one near Christmas, you can plan on about 10% of theose invited to not be able to come. Those on the B list should have been invited initially. If you planned on 200 people coming to your wedding invite 220. You are paying the caterer for an expected 200 people. If only 180 show up you are losing money. But if 210 show up it is easy to add 1 more table and pay the extra. You will get most of that back in presents and gratitude any way. |
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alexiasmommy
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 2
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:11 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| it is more traditional to mail them out but it is in better edicit to give them plenty of time to rsvp and see if they can make arrangement to be there, the time factor is always an issue!!!!! so at this point in time you should hand them out |
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yankabilliechic
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 7
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:13 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| I think it is o.k to hand out the ones you don't have an address for. When you are handing them to the person tell them that you couldn't find their address. If they are your friends they should understand. |
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ChingWaiSoBokChoiYunDong
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 5
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:15 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| Hand them out. If you do it at a meeting (and everyone attending the meeting is invited) make a big deal about how excited you are to have them come (if they can). They will be happy. |
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Sayos
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 8
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:17 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| hand them out that's more sophisticated |
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mraley76
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 1
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:19 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| I would mail them...You especially don't want your Co-Workers to feel like they are invited Just because you have Extra space now! Whats a few extra stamps....and alittle extra writing on an envelope!! By the way Congrats on the Wedding...Enjoy your day!!! |
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beckini
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 2
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:21 am Post subject: Should I mail or hand out invitations for my wedding? (See d |
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| In this situation, it would be fine to hand out the invitations.Congratulations! |
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