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Cameron
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 5
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:25 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| OK...he cheated on you twice. He banged another chick rather than bang you. He WILL cheat again. Ditch his sorry a** and find someone that will love you and only you. Otherwise you ll live your life thinking that he loves you when hes banging other chicks on the side. When he says he's sorry. He's sorry that he got caught. And not sorry that he actually did it. I'm sorry. He doesn;t love you. You should get rid of him before he messes your life up completely. I'm sorry. This is very hard for ya. I wish you the best of luck. But he doesn;t love you. He loves the idea of "having" you. Not you yourself. I'm very sorry. Please get out of the relationship fast. He's using you for pleasure and not for love. I'm sorry once again. You need to get out. I can't stress this enough. :(Good luck |
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USHERZWIFEY
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:28 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| U deserve way better than this sly ball!What would u be teaching ur child if u let him stick around? That its ok to tolerate cheating in a relationship ... Ur child should alwayz come 1st, and in this case, i think it would be wiser to kick ur partner out and leave him to give ur baby the best upbringing. Dont get me wrong, let him still have contact with u for the sake of ur child but dont let him back in otherwise he will take advantage of u yet again!Dont think that u cant get any better - because of course u can do better - it just comes with time! When u eventually find teh one that makes u happy then u will thank yourself for leaving this rat!! |
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horselover
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 5
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:31 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Hon, he only gets ONE warning!!!! If he PROMISED he wouldn't do it again and he did it I don't he will ever change!!! I'm soooooooooo sorry. |
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LadyB
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 8
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:34 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| I cant believe after everything you still believe he loves you.Honey, that isn't love!GET RID! For your kids sake as well as yours! |
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big_body
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 1
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:36 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| i say you better let go of him. |
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Sunshine
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 5
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:39 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Say good-bye to him...NOW...and do not look back.Ever. |
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renoir
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 2
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:42 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Do you honestly need someone else to answer this question for you, are you actually unsure, do you need to be told by complete strangers that if what you say is true he is not the most committed of persons, I can't believe you need to ask this and if people agree or disagree with you, what is the point. Best of luck if you need it. |
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RobertG
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:45 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Regardless of whether or not your bf is anything, it is quite clear that you are either a very good storyteller or incredibly gullible and naive, and at the allegedly mature age of thirty-six, to boot. Why in the world would you EVER even BEGIN to believe the things coming out of the mouth of the same person who you say has told you all those things? You appear to be leaving all your decision making processes up to your gonads instead of your cerebrum. There are three kinds of sexual maturity. At Thirty-six, and pregnant, it is clear that you've reached the physical kind of maturity. You have quite obviously a rather LONG way to go in becoming either intellectually or emotionally mature. Therefore, you are in no way ready to find yourself in a committed relationship, whether you are pregnant or not. |
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KellyS
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:47 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| what a b*******. i do know how you feel huni my ex was the same wedding planned had one child planned for another got preg, baby was born 12wks early and in intensive care he stood one side of the incubator i stood the other side our baby on full life support when he came out with I've been seeing some one else for 2yrs i had been with the twat for 3yrs. well he left and went with her they have NOW got marred and he hasn't bothered to see his two girls since our youngest daughter was 5 days old in intensive care. my advice would be get out of the relationship asap huni and make sure that thing don't get away with what he has put you through. x x x x x x x x x x x x x x good luck x x x x x x x x x x |
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tandrews431btinternetcom
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:50 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| This is not a man, if he has done this to you he is the lowest of the low. It will be extremely difficult but you are better off without a sleaze bag like that in your life. You said that you forgive him once, and he has abused that so never trust him again. You say that he loves you and wants the baby, you are deluding yourself. Get rid of him he is doing you more harm than good. |
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AnnieG
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 1
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:53 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Come on girl, you KNOW the answer, it won't be easy to split but that is what you need to do for your, and the childrens sake.Good Luck x |
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secondonlytotrollalalala
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 2
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:56 am Post subject: Is my bf the biggest rat ever? |
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| Hey, don't disrespect rats like that. |
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