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billg
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 Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:48 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| Its not your problem unless its you we are talking about in which case its time to move on from your current relationship to pursue this one but remember the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. In other words it may be exciting now but you may be making a terrible mistake and there will be no going back.Good Luck |
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Dreamer
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:50 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| Sounds like neither of them are ready for a serious relationship. If they are both just looking for a little thrill, it will die a natural death. She might want to consider the impression he and others will have of her when the game is over. This guy should not be trusted in a serious relationship! |
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alimac20001234
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:53 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| you can't tell her anything- let her figure it out for herself- sometimes being a friend means minding your own business- if she asks for advice tell her you are not going to judge her but you yourself would have to really sit down and think about your commitment to your boyfriend and depending on her age if she is over 23 and she's been with a man for 4 yrs. and he hasn't asked her to marry him she needs to leave him alone- speaking form experience not once but twice |
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Naamoku
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:56 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| With a bird in hand, two in bush still beckons. |
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harryb
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:58 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| Your friend is asking for trouble. A typical home-wrecker. Tell her to leave the engaged guy alone. |
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AlB
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:01 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| She must not be happy with her boyfriend or she wouldn't be tempted to cheat, and he is the wrong person to cheat with because if he is cheating on his future wife he is going to cheat with her if they were to become a couple. She needs perhaps to raise her self esteem and find someone else. I will give you a site she should visit and perhaps that may help her. |
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Abril
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:04 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| Maybe they should consider marriage couseling to find out whats to do, but its not really marriage, more like BF Gf kinda thing. My sister is one. If you want to ask her for advice i can give you her public email. I think the best thing you can do is try to either make your friend stop or tell her boyfriend.Or say "its either you tell him or i tell him if you don't stop!" I mean if you were being cheated on you'd want to know. It clear they're unhappy, so you want your friend to be happy. Sooo.. Yea |
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country_girl2361
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:06 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| well, you cant tell her what to do,but you can be there as a friend to listen to her concerns.What you can say to her is that you are realy concerned that she will get hurt because he is engaged, and she has a boyfriend. you can tell her that you think what she is doing isnt right.Now, on the other hand if neither of them is no longer interested in there relationships, then they should tell the other people so that they can move on with there lifes.and then if the two of them want to get together they will at least be doing it without cheating on there partners or wasteing there partners time |
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Johnny4158
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:09 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| Stay out of it she wont listen to you any way. or you can tell her shes an idiot and lose a friend. |
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bebe406
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:12 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| wow i hate guys i feel bad for the poor girl hes engaged to |
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outforsoftball
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:14 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| I would tell her to say no to him and no to herself before she gets her feelings hurt. Tell her to be strong and fight the urges, its all about will power. |
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SueF
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:17 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| Don't generalize about the engaged men part, your friend is equally to blame.She is obviously not happy in her relationship, if she is allowing other men to kiss her.They both have problems in their respective relationships, but should either end the relationships and move on or leave each other alone....Tell her she is to blame, as well as the guy. She may not see it that way or like it, but that is the truth. |
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DustinF
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:20 am Post subject: what is up with engaged men? |
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| Well it seems to me that they have had a thing between the two of them for awhile and just never explored it.....maybe til now? She obviously consented to it esp since it happened twice. Of course this does not make it right but its possible he is wanting to see if there is something else there and doesnt know how to say it.This may be one of those things where the best action is no action....and thats hard to do sometimes, but if she is willing to throw aside her 4 year relationship with someone whos engaged then your entering into the mix with advice maybe rewarded rather coldly....sometimes we have to let people make their own mistakes.Hope this helps! |
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