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Problems with my stepmother, what should I do?
 
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Jukebox122



Joined: 27 Mar 2008
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 8:15 am    Post subject: Problems with my stepmother, what should I do? Reply with quote
My name is Eliza, and I am the youngest of 12 children. The other eleven are brothers. Our father, a very important and well to do man, married a very wicked woman, indeed, who hated us all outright. We knew this from the very first day after the wedding. We played at receiving company; but instead of having, as usual, all the cakes and apples that were left, she gave us some sand in a tea-cup, and told us to pretend it was cake. The week after, she sent little me into the country to a peasant and his wife, and I do not know what she said to my father, and how she influenced him, but he never visited me.I lived there in poverty with no other children to play or even toys (I used to pierce a hole through the leaf, and looked through it at the sun, and it was my only toy). At 15 I came back home, and my stepmother is more evil than ever; my brothers are sent away, and I do not know where, what should I do?
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GoorceOceaddy



Joined: 15 Nov 2007
Posts: 14
Location: Italy

PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 9:58 am    Post subject: Problems with my stepmother, what should I do? Reply with quote
Avoid her as much as possible, don't even look at her and you'll do fine.
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GP8679



Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 11:41 am    Post subject: Problems with my stepmother, what should I do? Reply with quote
Are you writting a book ? This sounds like a story !
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KS8233



Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 1:23 pm    Post subject: Problems with my stepmother, what should I do? Reply with quote
Try talking to your father, leaving out your feelings about your stepmom. Chances are, she had a rough life too, even tho that is no excuse to make your's miserable. If you cannot spend a private moment with your father, try to approach your stepmom in a way that is different from your normal self....talk to her, try to understand where she is coming from. I bet she is not evil, just not your mother. Try to befriend her.
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giovanni



Joined: 21 Mar 2007
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 3:06 pm    Post subject: Problems with my stepmother, what should I do? Reply with quote
What a sad life you have had. Get in with a Church Family close to your home, and they will help you so much. If you ask me, your Dad is not very important nor well to do man, or he would not treat his kids like that. His kids is his responsibility, over his 2nd wife, and he needs to take hold and take care of his children. He will pay dearly one day, when he has to answer to God on Judgement Day.
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hrmg



Joined: 24 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 4:49 pm    Post subject: Problems with my stepmother, what should I do? Reply with quote
Eliza, your stepmother sounds like a witch, i think that you should try to find out where all your brothers are because family is the most important thing, always. i don't know how you could find out though i'm shure you could go somwhere and look up thier names and it will probably tell you where they are well, hope i helped and sorry about your sad story.
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kill_yr_television5500



Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 6:32 pm    Post subject: Problems with my stepmother, what should I do? Reply with quote
At 15, you are still a minor child. You have rights. You appear to have been denied an education. Contact your local child and protective services. They can put you in a foster home until you are 18. Concentrate the next three years in getting your GED,and stay out of trouble. Do anything to avoid a criminal record. Go to church and tell the pastor or priest your problems; maybe they can help. Meanwhile, while you fight to get your GED, build yourself up as much as possible. Run, lift weights, whatever, get some muscles. Then with a GED, join the military. Forget your birthfamily. In the military, you will have hundreds of brothers, sisters, and the finest role models in the world (sargeant majors and officers).
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GenryDont



Joined: 29 Feb 2008
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Location: USA

PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 8:15 pm    Post subject: Problems with my stepmother, what should I do? Reply with quote
DO NOT let the stepmother rub walnut juice on you, or smear a hurtful ointment on her face.DO befriend eleven wild swans--they are your brothers.
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