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seitiange
Joined: 15 Apr 2008
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 Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 3:11 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| Well, my husband hadn't been wearing his wedding ring for a while, and I finally plucked up the courage to ask straight out. First of all he trailed off and went off on tangents etc. etc., but finally he turned to me and said,"I tell everyone I'm married, honestly, I do. But I feel gay with a ring on my finger."I told him I'd sleep on it. Doesn't sound like a valid reason to me. What do you think?All right, plucked up the courage sounds silly. What I meant was that I finally asked him, after ages of trying to pretend it didn't matter much. |
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NoumBlins
Joined: 23 Jul 2007
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Location: Porn
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 3:33 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| The whole thing sounds ridiculous to me. From the part where you "plucked up the courage to ask him" to "I feel gay wearing a wedding band." You have no guts and he's just stupid. |
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Plaisysoima
Joined: 22 Jan 2008
Posts: 8
Location: Taiwan
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 3:55 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| Sounds fishy to me. |
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mrscamillabrightside
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:16 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| He feels gay wearing his wedding band?? Sorry sounds like a cop out to me. |
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reddheadd
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:38 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| Wow.........that's the first time I've ever heard a man say that. Definately a new one. I'm not sure about how I'd feel about it either, expecialy since he went off on tangents and tried to avoid the question--I think it warrents a little more discussion. But I'm glad you finally did ask him about it! |
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spulsiodof3s8
Joined: 31 Mar 2008
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Location: Thailand
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:00 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| My husband wont wear one either but it was something we talked about before we got married so I didnt buy him one. Yes he thinks it looks gay. |
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ravi_theIBMer
Joined: 26 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:22 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| Well for one you are his wife why would it take you so long to ask him why he doesn't wear his ring! You shouldn't have to come up with the courage to ask him, I might be headed down the wrong path but for some reason it seems as if you are scared of him. I say that only because most wives would say something the very first day it wasn't on his finger! Second Thats a BS excuse "I feel gay"If I had to place a bet I would say your husband is cheating on you and that is why he doesn't wear his ring! You need to have a serious heart to heart with your husband becasue he is lying to you! |
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steveh
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:44 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| He feels "gay " wearing a wedding ring? That's funny. |
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Rooskie
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:05 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| Not to be mean but I don't know who is the bigger moron here....him for telling your such a dumb story or you for marrying someone like that. Bottom line, he is cheating or trying to cheat! |
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Seablesahbaro
Joined: 29 Dec 2007
Posts: 46
Location: USA
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:27 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| My husband doesn't wear his ring because he doesn't like wearing jewelry. He doesn't have to invent stupid reasons because I don't question him about it and don't pressure him into anything. If he wanted to wear it, he would; if he doesn't for whatever reason, I'm not gonna get on his case about it. Not everyone likes to wear rings. |
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raichasays
Joined: 12 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:49 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| Is your husband questioning his sexuality? Sounds like all this has deeper meaning..Good luck |
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Momof5
Joined: 02 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:11 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| There are many men who feel like this. I think it is a valid reason. Give him a break. |
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Neexesmacieli
Joined: 22 Jan 2008
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Location: Philippines
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:33 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| hell no I would be pissed my husband never takes off his ring he is proud to be married to me.Sounds like your man is trying to look single! |
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reaganandcourtney
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:54 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| I'm curious how long he hasn't worn it. How long have you been married? Did he always wear it before and all of a sudden decide it was gay? These are all questions I would want to know before making any determination. |
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puglyparker
Joined: 13 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:16 am Post subject: "Honestly, sweetheart? It made me feel less masculine."? |
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| Oh, come on. Your whole story sounds a little suspicious to me. You had to work up courage to ask him about that? And you let him get by with an excuse like this? I think you're making it up b/c it's so ridiculous. |
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