|
|
juliejuliejulie
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
|
 Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:54 am Post subject: relationship emergency...need advice? |
 |
|
|
| I have been dating my girlfriend for several months and it has been going great, so I bought the ring, I knew from the start that she is the one and it has been a mutual feeling for us both...so I have been honest and better than I knew I could,and we have both started out cautious,having been hurt before,now someone she works with is dating an ex that I only knew briefly a long time ago,and when she was talking of her happiness and future wedding...they tell her all these lies about me..and I do not want to go off on them and cause any problems for my girl and she loves her job..but how do you deal with something so painful? I have done all I know to prove to her they are lies but she says allowing me to confront them even if I promise to be civil is out of the question with her..I just do not want lies from scorned past to affect her feelings for me and I really am the happiest and the best I ever have been and both our families see this in both of us...Help !!! |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
|
|
 |
Joe
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
Posts: 19
|
| Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 7:39 am Post subject: relationship emergency...need advice? |
|
|
|
| I DONT THINK THAT SHE WOULD SERIOUSLY JUST TAKE THERE WORD AND LABEL YOU,U KNO? SO I WOULD JUST LET IT SLIDE,CUS IM SURE WHATEVER THERE SAYING ABOUT YOU SHE HASNT SEEM YOU DO..OR HAVE HAD DONE TO HER.....AS A WOMAN I KNOW THAT I WOULDNT TAKE THE WORD OF SOME CHIC THATS AN EX ANYTHING TO MY BOO.I WOULD TOTALY THINK SHES HATING AND JUST TRY'N TO START TROUBLE BECAUSE SHES NOT WITH YOU..IF SHE LOVES YOU ,YOUR WORD IS STRONGER THEN ANYBODY ELSES...BUT SHE SHOULD STOP TALKING TO HER.....GOOD LUCK |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
JorjVasilich
Joined: 22 Jun 2007
Posts: 8
Location: USA
|
| Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 10:24 am Post subject: relationship emergency...need advice? |
|
|
|
| Tell her straight up. "Believe me or them. I've done all I can to convince you they're lying. You have no reason to doubt me. If I really mean something to you you'll take my side and ignore them." |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
KaDy
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
Posts: 5
|
| Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 1:09 pm Post subject: relationship emergency...need advice? |
|
|
|
| it is better this type of test comes now instead of later, true love will stand on it's own love your girlfriend and always be honest. Don't try to fight what you feel another has done to you for it is probably the first of many. When people do wrong they reap what they sow. Just be true to your love for your girlfriend that is the sweetest revenge. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
justlaughscouk
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
Posts: 10
|
| Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 3:54 pm Post subject: relationship emergency...need advice? |
|
|
|
| Perhaps this e-book can help you with your relationship? It's a free download so it's worth a shot I think. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
FAQ
Search
Usergroups
Register
Profile
Log in to check your private messages
Log in
