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babygrl2
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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 Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 4:48 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| Found out my current hubby cheated thru out our relationship prior to our marriage-interestingly found out online 1 month b4 the wedding...went thru w/marriage due to shame & embarrassment, later found him still online chatting/hooking up. 1 yr later, I'm bored, I don't love him, and I want out. I'm sick of him, & don't really care what he does. Recently found a pic of a woman saved on his computer, of course he lied about it say he dont know "how" if got there....I'm sick of this marriage and probably sick of being married all together, not fulfilling, not happy, sick of it all...we avoid talking about it, so... |
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jenisilly80
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 4:55 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| sounds like you already made up your mind, luv. biggest step is the one out the door. GL! You know what to do. |
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falcon
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 5:02 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| The first line of this question screams "GET OUT!".So yes, you should divorce. Sorry dear.You should not have gotten married. HE should be the one ashamed of himself. You did nothing wrong. You can do better than that. Chin up, and be strong. Good luck. |
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mrskerlin
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 5:09 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| You should have cancelled the wedding when you found out what he was doing and saved yourself the trouble but you are here now and can and should move on... |
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Einstein
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 5:16 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| Seems like you already decided what to do but if it makes you feel better, it seems you have all the reasons in the world to want a divorce and valid ones at that. |
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Nonfoo
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 5:24 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| Yeah, he doesn't sound like the best guy. You're lucky there are no children. Now's the time to leave. He's not going to change. Do you really want to live your whole life like this? You deserve better. |
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wwwhearts-and-kissescom
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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ColleenC
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 5:38 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| Yes. |
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rodriguezm
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 5:45 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| you made up your mind, so leave . don't waste anymore time with someone who is worthless. you deserve better. |
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PatrickF
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 5:52 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| Well, that does not sound like a ringing endorsement of the marriage.Ask it the other way - is there a really good reason to stay in the marriage (not the social pressure and family pressure to be seen to have a good marriage)?If there is, it is time to sit down and have a good talk about letting all that other stuff go.However, guys who like to play the field find it very hard to adjust when they get married. I certainly don't get a big love vibe there from you.From what you say ... leave.Peace. |
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Shannon29
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 6:00 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| Hire an attorney, and get out. If you are this unhappy now, then you are never gong to be happy. No matter about therapy or trying to talk it over with him. Good luck, and I hope you find happiness. |
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doobie7250585
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 6:07 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| you should do what makes you happy. it sounds like your marriage isnt really a marriage anyways. i would leave if in your situation. |
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jmc24
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 6:14 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| Get what you can and run girl. Life is too short! Good Luck |
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Bombay-duck
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 6:21 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| Even though he cheated, you may want to rethink it. Just because he is "addicted" to the Net doesn't mean he don't love you. Maybe you need to love him so that he's cured of his addiction.And most Indian men don't cheat on their wives. So you have nothing to fear.You both need to go for an outing and you can probably gift a book to your husband on the subject of "romance". That will teach him to be more romantic., |
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elvlayarvvi
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 6:28 pm Post subject: Should I leave this marriage? |
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| yes, leave, he will never be faithful =(... find a real man, leave this loser... |
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