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Kita
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| Time will work wonders! Wait fr few more weeks |
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KimieH
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 5:14 am Post subject: Some advice? |
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| for a while you will compare you ex with your new partner but it will get easier. You was with your ex for a long time and parting with someone is a bit like a bereavement. There is an old saying that time is a great healer and I am someone that knows......believe me it is true you just cannot see it yet..Have some fun while you can we only live once..xx |
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KintyKasksisk
Joined: 20 Feb 2008
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Location: The Gambia
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 5:49 am Post subject: Some advice? |
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| Time heals all wounds. Believe me, I've been in your shoes. When you are going out on a date, you think that this is going to help you forget your ex. In some instances it does, but it sounds like you need to have time alone and let your wounds heal. No one will ever replace her, but believe me, in time, that special love of your life will come along. Be patient and don't try to rush things. |
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Kitikat
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 6:23 am Post subject: Some advice? |
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| I think anytime you include an ex's best friend there is going to be trouble! You can probably kiss the thought of getting back w/ your ex goodbye if and when she finds out what you have done. My best friends and I always had the rule that ex's were off limits! Our friendships were too important.If you are still that hung up on comparing everything to your ex then it sound slike you still are too much in love with her to move on quite yet.Plus being with her friend will just keep bringing up memories of your ex! I would move on to another territory! |
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kimber_and_kyle_forever
Joined: 20 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 6:57 am Post subject: Some advice? |
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| A lot of what you are going through right now are about trying to rebuild your life in a new and stable manner. Because your ex left you, emotionally, and from a planning point of view, before she left physically, she was ready to date as soon as her a** went out your door. Because you didn't get to know that your relationship was over at the same time as she decided that it was over, its natural that you won't be at the same place about getting over her as she is about having gotten over you.Thats perfectly normal and natural. It will take some time, making new happy memories, before all that really goes away for you. Thats also normal and natural. Now, as to the girl that you're sleeping with now, shes most likely a rebound relationship for you. Thats OK, thats a pretty good way to get past such an ending, and its a good way to create new and happier memories. Just don't presume that it will be your Next Major Relationship ( It might be, but the odds are against it. ) As long as you make a choice not to allow yourself to get distant because of your memories, then you won't get that way. Explain that you're not all over the times with your ex (Not that you want her back, but getting through a major change in anyone's life takes some time and effort) and that it might make it look like you're still wanting to be with your ex. Live in a way that makes you happy, and that doesn't hurt anyone else, or make someone else believe that you're ready for something that you're not really ready for. Good luck. |
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Kim5238
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 7:31 am Post subject: Some advice? |
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| this is very normal but also very poisonous. this same issue put alot of pressure on my previous boyfriend. i talked about a past lover and what he did wrong to me and at first i compared them all the time. i didnt realize what i was doin was damaging our bond. its not what ended the relationship but it help poison it. i would suggest to take it slow with this girl, im not saying forget what happen to you but learn how to deal with it in a different way. and also you may want to date, but in all actuality may not be ready for it just yet. take a breath and consider your options. think about what is right for you right now. if she is worth it, then figure out how to handle your emotions and thoughts. its tough but its worth the effort. love. |
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Kit8606
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 8:06 am Post subject: Some advice? |
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| Don't listen to the women! They tell you to 'keep it in your pants', while they are screwing anything in sight.get busy my man & forget the skanky ex!You only want her cuz you don't have her.It's all a big, dirty game. The women know that. Wise up & play as dirty as possible. Screw as many women as you can.Life is for living!! |
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