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Snotonvit
Joined: 30 Mar 2008
Posts: 7
Location: World
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 Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 10:21 pm Post subject: Wedding Invitation? |
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Ok so my parents (i'm 1 got a wedding invitation in the mail today and it was addressed "Mr. and Mrs. Smith" (not my real last name) and so I'm assuming that I'm not invited.......or am I wrong? I want to go but I know how much food will probably cost and really understand that.... my parents haven't seen the invitation yet..... so idk what they think or if they are even gonna go...... but do you think I should just not go? It's family, not that close... but still family... so it would be nice to see some relatives I haven't seen for a while.thanks everyone! btw i'm assuming i'm NOT invited..... probably for the best lol.... |
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sushivehh
Joined: 26 Oct 2007
Posts: 5
Location: Canada
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| Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 12:09 am Post subject: Wedding Invitation? |
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| If your name is not on the invitation, I would say you shouldn't go. |
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Sum1Spcl
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 1:57 am Post subject: Wedding Invitation? |
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| Usually if it doesn't say "Smith family" or "Mr./Mrs.Smith and family" then it means the kids are not invited. Your parents should call and make sure just in case. Since you are over 18 and just got the invitation, your own invitation could still be on it's way in the mail. |
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T
Joined: 02 Dec 2007
Posts: 27
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| Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 3:45 am Post subject: Wedding Invitation? |
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| well, if your name wasn't on there... you probably weren't invited. But your mom could call and chat with her casually and throw it in there and see. If you're family, I don't see why you weren't invited? But every bride is different. |
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Speersloomo
Joined: 05 Feb 2008
Posts: 17
Location: Thailand
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| Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 5:33 am Post subject: Wedding Invitation? |
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| If you haven't opened it, there's usually an inner envelope that lists by name who all is invited. If your name is on that, then you're invited, if it isn't, then you're not. Your relatives may have simply had to make some tough decisions regarding numbers, and had to eliminate you, even though you're 18. They probably wouldn't have wanted to offend younger cousins who they definitely weren't inviting. That's assuming you're not invited. Wait until your parents get home, let them open the invite, and take it from there. |
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Testowy
Joined: 25 Aug 2007
Posts: 2
Location: Marocco
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| Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 7:21 am Post subject: Wedding Invitation? |
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| Usually if the invitation doesn't include "and family" or "and guest" you are probably not invited. The bride and groom may have only been able to afford those tow plates for your family. |
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snailysnal
Joined: 03 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 9:09 am Post subject: Wedding Invitation? |
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| If it doesn't say "and family" then no you are not invited. Unless on the inside envelope it says your name or and family. Please for the bride's sake and sanity, don't assume anything. If you have any questions please call her directly and ask. The last thing she needs is a cousin showing up that she purposely left off the dinner list for monetary reasons expecting to be fed. I know that for my wedding I am excluding some family from the dinner because I don't know them very well and don't see them but once a year and can't afford to feed people that I don't know. Keep this saying in mind "When you assume, you make an a** out of you and me."Call the bride with questions. |
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