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kojo_bralio
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 Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 5:40 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| u are a bridesmaid in ur friends wedding and for her bachelorette party the girls are going to vegas..Ur Fiance is upset about it..and says he doesnt want u to go...and says he wouldnt go if it were the other way around. It isnt a money issue. I dont think he is being honest ..i THINK if it were him going to a bachelor part in vegas he would go regardless.he always claims he trusts me... should i go or not go to make him happy?? |
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knowitallssuckiamone
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 5:46 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| Why wouldn't he go? What would HE be doing? I say go anyways. |
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KolioQweku
Joined: 02 Jun 2007
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Location: Washington
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 5:51 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| If he trusted you he would let you go. So he has some insecurites of his own. Being a bridesmaid you should go |
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knilymbobbyic
Joined: 05 Dec 2007
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Location: Afghanistan
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 5:57 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| He's jealous. If he loves you, he'll let you go because he'd WANT you to have fun. It's not like you're going to cheat on him or anything, so why not? |
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Knuckles
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:02 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| Go. And reconsider being engaged to this person. If he can already pull your chain, then just imagine a lifetime of your chain being pulled about every single issue. Life is short, plan on making yourself happy, not a jealous insecure guy. |
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koko96643
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:08 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| He is being unreasonable......you are a part of the entourage, so I guess if you decline that, that wouldnt be fair to your friend too, reassure your man that you only want to do that for the wedding and nothing else,let him understand the situation and do it all in subtle manner and I ma sure with the way you convince him, finally he will come or allow you to the most, ok? |
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knowitallssuckiamone
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:14 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| i would go anyway...its not like you get to go to Vegas everyday with all your g/f's to have a good time...tell him if it were the other way around you would WANT him to go have have a GREAT time with his friends...!! |
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knowitallssuckiamone
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:19 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| Sound like to me he doesn't trust you, If he did he would say go and have fun, mine did and i went all the way from Georgia to New Jersey. And I had a the time of my life, even though I got home sick lol, but it was FUN, you'll regret it if you don't go, don't think for one second he wouldn't go cause he would. If there is no trust and honesty your relationship it's over before it gets started my dear. The same guy that told me to go and have fun, we'll be married 25 years on 2-14-08. By all means go and have a great time and don't do nothing stupid. |
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knmover
Joined: 06 Aug 2007
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Location: Porn
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:25 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| Honestly, I wouldn't want my fiance to go off to Vegas with his friends. So in return, I wouldn't go either. We trust each other, but were talking about Vegas here.I mean, think about it. You seriously wouldn't mind if your fiance goes to Vegas with his guy friends for a bachelor party? You know whats involved in bachelor/bachelorette parties right? Now picture that in the center of Vegas!! |
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knilymoummirm
Joined: 14 Oct 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:31 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| That opportunity of going to Vegas may never come again and who the heck cares if he wouldn't go if he had the chance. If he's already telling you what you should do according to what he would do then you are in for one heck of a rocky relationship. If you really want to go then just go. He'll get over it. He sounds like a very selfish person. So I hope you have a fantastic time and the very best of luck on your upcoming marriage. |
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komutopizde
Joined: 31 Jan 2008
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:36 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| Go and enjoy the party. This belongs to the life of your culture. |
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knmover
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:42 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| GO HE NEEDS TO LEARN TRUST!!!! |
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KolioQweku
Joined: 02 Jun 2007
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Location: Washington
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:48 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| You either have full trust in a relationship or you don't. And this shows you that your fiance' does not trust you. He is jealous and that is an ugly thing. And on the other side of the coin, why would you even want this so badly? I think that your loyalty should be with your partner. So you see it's a matter of what you want the most. I have never heard of such a thing as for a party like that to go to the extent of Vegas being in the picture. |
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KolioQweku
Joined: 02 Jun 2007
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Location: Washington
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:53 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| he is either selfish or doesn't trust you... I suggest you tell him that you are not him, if he wouldn't go, then YOU want to go... you are two different people, so its normal to be like/want different things. So if your happiness counts for him he will allow you to go because you want |
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koko96643
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:59 am Post subject: What would u do in this scenario? |
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| me personally?i would go. its not like your a random person being invited 2 this womans wedding.your her bridesmaid and an important part of her wedding party!your boyfriend needs to get a grip and needs to stop being so selfish. it's not even about him ruining something for you. it goes further than even that. if he trusts u then explain to him that if he did surely this would be like water off a ducks back and he would be wishing you a safe journey and good time instead of trying to stop you. |
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