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MMsMommy
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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 Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 4:30 am Post subject: what would you do??? |
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| First let me start by saying my parents are very controlling. i am 25 married with 3 kids we have our own house ect...we live 2 doors down and when we have people over they willl ask us who it is and who they are ect...Well for holidays we always spend it with my parents, but this year we went out of state to visit some relatives of my husbands. We had a blast, the kids had a blast meeting them all especially my oldest who is 4 she had a ton of fun.well we got back 2 days ago and today my dad wanted to take my 4 y/o roller skating which i thought was okay.She came home we ate supper,. decorated the christmas tree, and when we were in the kitchen making cinnamon rolls for the morning she said "mommy papaw said michigan is boring and that we should stay here cause he really missed me"just told her that papaw was being silly. and she said well papaw is wrong it was fun and when iasked her what else he said she got quiet. like i knew there was more. how should i handle my dad??i don't think this has to do with me so much as he is trying to manipulate my daughter... they want to be #1 and do't like others in the way |
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naenae0011
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 6:06 am Post subject: what would you do??? |
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| Tell your Dad to stop using your children to send messages to you... tell him to come directly to you if he has an issue. |
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JusMe
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 7:42 am Post subject: what would you do??? |
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| Yes, you should get Dad straight. It's important for children to experience different cultures, areas, etc. |
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snowsnowy
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 9:18 am Post subject: what would you do??? |
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| this is just a way to control you and your dad is doing it through your daughter. you need to tell you parents that you are married and live on your own and you are also an adult and can do what you want when you want and have others over if you want and what you do is yours and your husbands business not theirs..and that you understand their concern but you have your own life to live and they need to stop pressig your daughter for info and telling her things that may or may not be true..your dad has a control issue and needs to be called out on it in my opinion. my mother to this day still tries to control my life and I wont let her so she doesnt bother with me. so you may have to worry about them treating you like a black sheep. you only have one life to live YOURS so live it. |
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