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Nicole8739
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 Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 7:20 am Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| My fiance and I are going to get our wedding license and get married at our city hall with just us, the minister and the witness. A few months later, we will be having our big ceremony with all our friends and family. (We're doing this because he is in the military and will only be able to take leave later in the year so we can have the big ceremony.)In your opinion, which date would you consider to be that couple's wedding anniversary: the marriage at city hall, or the big ceremony with friends and family? |
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Nhuj
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 8:08 am Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| The wedding anniversary would be the date of the first wedding as that will be the marriage that is legally recognised |
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NickBrahlovskiy
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 8:56 am Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| the marrige at city hall, its the day you actually become husband and wife. |
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Nick
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 9:44 am Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| City Hall is where you will become husband and wife. That day is the day you will be married, that will be your anniversary. Just curious, why not wait if it is just a few months, it would be so much more exciting if the big wedding was your real wedding. |
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NewYorkDoctorD
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 10:33 am Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| The first day you were actually married, the one at city hall. But hey, have fun with 2 dates...a first anniversary and a first and a quarter anniversary! |
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nickyB
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 11:21 am Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| Simple when will you first call him your husband? |
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Nick
Joined: 26 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 12:09 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| Your wedding anniversary is the date of the day you actually are first legally married, exchange your vows and have your wedding witnessed.Congratulations to you and your fiance. Give him a big hug of appreciation for his military service.Have a wonderful wedding, celebration and Blessed marriage. |
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NicoleY
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 12:57 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| In my opinion the City Hall date is the actual anniversary |
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Nicretyes
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 1:45 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| the marriage at city hall |
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Nhuj
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 2:34 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| your anniversary date is the date of your legal wedding which is your city hall do, your big wedding later is just a fancy show and party!btw why don't you just wait those couple of months and have your big wedding? i'm not criticizing, just curious!good luck! |
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NicoleHillaryJones
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 3:22 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| Depends on why the couple feels. I personally would go with the one that everyone was there at. Yes that is not your legal wedding date but its the one that is more symbolic in the way that your family and friends are there sharing it with you. Military is a big issue with early marriages before the big ceremony. If yall are getting married early obviously because of that celebrate your later one because then its the one you made infornt of EVERYONE not just the JP and 2 friends. It really depends on the person though and I know most wont agree with me but I am a person that goes to the one that means the most to me. Where its not the rushed one its the planned out one and the one talked about forever.I also understand the military thing i would be doing the same thing since he is prob going off and something can happen then your covered too under everything. I honestly point this out to all my friends with military boyfriends or the guys that are in the military and have girlfriends that they know will be with forever.If your like me and you think of it as City hall is yes where you sign the papers that says yall are married but the Big Ceremony is where yall actually "get married" to everyone else in a way. Then that would be yalls day but if you are asking legally then its the first one. It depends on the way you look at it and how you feel about it. |
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Nickswife
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 4:10 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| The first one because then your anniversary will be coming up that much sooner, and you'll be wanting to celebrate! |
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Nfreevid
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 4:58 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| your true anniversary would be on the date that you were legally married but that said there is no reason that you couldn't have some special celebration to remember the wonderful day that you celebrated you marriage with your family and friends. Good luck. |
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Nicaforuzlm
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 5:46 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| I guess the big ceremony would be the anniversary date, with the civil ceremony as a private celebration for the two of you and the witnesses. Maybe you can go out for drinks or cheese or something on that day. |
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Nicole
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 6:35 pm Post subject: Which would you consider to be the "actual" anniversary date |
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| It's the date you got married - which is the civil ceremony in this case. That's your anniversary date. |
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