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simonem
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 Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 4:29 pm Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| I am tired of answering questions or hearing people say that they cheated on their Husband./wife and how sorry and remorseful they feel. I know I am not suppose to judge people and I know that everyone makes mistakes. But why the h*ell do people get married and then cheat. I think it is being Greedy. Getting a divorce in my book is better than cheating!! Someone please fill me in?? I know people get married for the wrong reasons but come on, you have to take responsibility for your actions/decisions you make!! How do you fweel about this?? |
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KJ1629
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 5:55 pm Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| you're right.you shouldn't judge people. you haven't walked a single step in their shoes. |
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ForlornHope
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 7:21 pm Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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people do it cos they can... :Dthe opportunity is always there...such is life...  |
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bina64davis7822
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:48 pm Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| It sounds like I feel exactly the same way you do. I don't get it; don't understand it; and it really makes me angry! |
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BabyD2448
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 10:14 pm Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| If they are admitting the affair then they are taking responsibility! People are human and make mistakes. End of story. |
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NDfan4091
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 11:41 pm Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| a divorce is generally permanent, sleeping with someone else is quite temporary physical act that you can put out of your mind. |
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Godless5697
Joined: 11 Apr 2008
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:07 am Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| Because their marriage is missing something, they are bored, they just want some sex, out of spite...The list goes on. |
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GODDESS
Joined: 11 Apr 2008
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 2:33 am Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| I agree with you...if they aren't ready to commit they shouldn't marry. My husband was recently looking up his ex over the internet....he said he was just curious...If I had done that he would have got really mad. I did tell him to go to her if he wanted to....cos I don't need him...he needs me. |
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Twillback
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 4:00 am Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| Selfishness. It is the only reason people do it. If they have problems, instead of facing them, they try to fill the hole that is inside them by seeking another person. If they don't get what they want out of the marriage, and are planning on getting a divorce, seeking someone else out to "test the waters", so to speak, gives them a reason to do what they do. I honestly don't understand it a whole lot either, even though it has happened to me. Some people just don't give a sh*t about anyone but themselves. |
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Angelsentfromheaven
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 5:26 am Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| i totally agree that adultery is wrong and very sinful if your not happy move on and dont let it deep going because cheating on your spouse is going to hurt them more than just saying your done with the relationship and i think if more people would do this then we girls would be able to trust guys alot more than we can now without the fear of being hurt and cheated on and girls are just as bad about cheating as the guys but we all need to just stop playing games and be in a relationship or dont. |
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elvlayarvvi8495
Joined: 11 Apr 2008
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 6:53 am Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| some people commit adultery because they think they won't get caught...wrong, it's always found out... the man/woman always blabs to someone...lol... always! it's a small world... if someone does not blab there is evidence somewhere...always...some people think they have a good reason... no reason is a good reason!you vow to forsake all others 'til death do you part... in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, for better or worse...no exceptions... none...if you don't mean the vow, step away from the altar during the vows and let that person go so they can find their true mate...!!!if they want to cheat, they should divorce, first... |
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LelaA9727
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 8:19 am Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| people make unhealthy decisions every day, they will deal with the consequences of thier actions, but some refuse to take the responsibility and that is wrongit is called LUST for another person |
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BikerChick
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 9:45 am Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| They do it, because they are SELFISH and have no respect for anyone or anything but themselves. There IS no excuse. |
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MeMe0674
Joined: 11 Apr 2008
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 11:12 am Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| Girl-Friend! I know you've heard of CURIOSITY!!!!There is going to always be something lacking in relationship no matter what. Sometimes men/women forgot to continue doing things they did to get the mate. So, what's lacking the other person turns you on by giving you that. meaning, if you don't have good conversation and another person gives you this it's a turn on.. Curiosity override the brain and we as adults become weak and fall for the O-KE-DOKE! Just that simple. We never intentionally do things to hurt our significant others it's a brain malfunction that makes it hard to turn down the curious...Hopes this helps as we all are guilty of adultry in some way.. |
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Charlie5156
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| Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 12:38 pm Post subject: WHY DO PEOPLE COMMITT Adulterey? |
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| I agree with you. If you are not ready to be faithful then don't get married. |
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